I’ll be in Myrtle Beach for a couple of weeks for work. I’ll have some pockets for golf when I’m off and would like to play as much as I can. Are there some good courses with multiple courses or courses that are close enough to each other to be able to play 36 with ease in a day? Thanks.

A ex friend used my phone to try to get pics of a girl I knew and her sister who is 15! I have to go to the station tomorrow and tell them my side oh and the friend that did it fucked off back to NC or SC I'm fucked .

My friend used my phone to try to get pics of my friend and her younger sister who is 15! With help of a rando but instead that rando took a screen shot and send it to her good on the rando but my friend she's pissed as fuck at me and I have to go to station tomorrow and explain my side oh and the friend that did no fucking longer here in my state fucked off back to NC or SC fucking asshole

Any therapists in the Myrtle Beach area? Moving to the area, but worried about the lack of job postings. Also, the pay ranges I’ve found online vary wildly and I would like to narrow it down. Thanks!

I (24, F) am planning on driving my 4 year old Honda Fit from Myrtle Beach SC to Corpus Christi TX in mid July this summer. I am wondering if anyone has done a similar trip or driven through some of these areas with any advice to offer. I am hoping to drive through New Orleans for one of my nights to get a tattoo (lol) but am not sure how long this trip will realistically take, what to look out for w road conditions, cell service, weather, etc. not sure if I should drive in the evenings rather than day? or get early starts (like 4 am?) any thoughts appreciated.

EDIT: Gentle reminder regarding R3 😠

EDIT 2: It's crazy how many of you that are on the USL or banned from here think I'm willing to give you anything other than this - 🖕

No price is firm really, everything is negotiable 🤘

Uncommon

Item	Certification	Colour	Series	Price
Baseball Cap (F)	Aviator			250
Halo		Forest Green		200
Little Dog	Tactician			200

Rare

Item	Certification	Colour	Series	Price
Animus Odd Fish	Uncert x2		Velocity	20
		Black	Velocity	50
		Purple	Velocity	30
Animus Rose King		Black	Triumph	80
Breakout Type-S Mobo		Pink	Nitro	50
Breakout Type-S S'Mored	Aviator		Velocity	30
	Show-Off		Velocity	30
		Forest Green	Velocity	50
Breakout Astaroth	Juggler		Zephyr	40
	Playmaker	Orange	Zephyr	80
		Titanium White	Zephyr	150
Breakout Heiwa	Tactician		Turbo	100
Breakout Shibuya			CC1	100
Breakout Taniwha		Forest Green	Ferocity	50
Centio Machina		Titanium White	Triumph	100
Centio Splashback		Orange	Impact	50
		Titanium White	Impact	100
Dominus GT Staredown	Striker	Grey	Impact	350
		Cobalt	Impact	80
Dominus Arcana	UnCert x3		CC1	100
Dominus Mixtape		Saffron	TAS	40
		Skyblue	TAS	40
Dominus Mondo	UnCert		CC3	100
	Show-Off		CC3	100
Dominus Polo Caliente	UnCert x3		CC1	100
Dominus Suji	AcrobatSOLD	Grey	Turbo	200
	Acrobat	Crimson	Turbo	250
Fennec Edge Burst	Victor	Forest Green	Vindicator	100
Gizmo Mean Streak	UnCert x2		CC4	100
	Sweeper		CC4	100
Hat Trick	UnCert x6		Ferocity	30
Hotshot Hi-Tech	UnCert		CC4	100
	Sweeper		CC4	100
Imperator Windswept		Black	Impact	80
		Titanium White	Impact	80
Jäger StarLighter	Guardian	Cobalt	GM'23	50
	Tactician		Zephyr	40
		Pink	Players Choice	50
		Skyblue	Zephyr	50
Jäger XVI	UnCert x6		Triumph	30
	Tactician		Triumph	40
		Grey	Triumph	40
		Purple	Triumph	40
Masamune Kawaii	UnCert x4		Turbo	30
	Striker		Turbo	50
Masamune Oni	UnCert x5		CC3	100
Merc Narwhal	UnCert x6		CC2	100
	Sweeper		CC2	100
Octane ZSR Jiangshi	UnCert x2		Nitro	50
	Scorer		Nitro	80
		Forest Green	Nitro	100
Octane ZSR Mechaceph		TW x2	Zephyr	100
Octane Abtruse	Striker x2		Vindicator	50
	SweeperSOLD	Titanium White	Vindicator	150
		SkyblueSOLD	Vindicator	80
Octane Chantico	Scorer		Zephyr	60
	Victor		Zephyr	40
Octane Christmas Tree	Uncert x2		Secret Santa	150
Octane Dragon Lord	UnCert x4		CC2	100
	Aviator		Players Choice	70
	Aviator	Grey	GE'20	100
	Scorer		CC2	100
	Scorer		Players Choice	100
	Striker		Players Choice	150
	Sweeper	Lime	GE'20	100
	Tactician		Players Choice	80
	Turtle		Players Choice	50
	Turtle	Black	Revival	70
	Victor	Skyblue	GE'20	60
		Pink	GE'20	50
Octane Gale-Fire	VictorSOLD		Ferocity	50
Octane Griffon	Tactician		Turbo	80
Octane Roadkill	Scorer		CC4	100
	Striker x2		GE'18	100
	Tactician		GE'18	80
Octane Royal Tyrant	Scorer		Triumph	70
Octane Shisha	UnCert x3SOLD		CC3	100
	AviatorSOLD		GE'22	40
	ScorerSOLD		CC3	250
	ScorerSOLD		Players Choice	100
Octane Slimline	Sweeper		Velocity	50
Octane Sticker Bomb		Grey	Elevation	40
		Orange	Elevation	40
Octane Vaporwave	Scorer		TAS	80
Takumi Aqueous	Playmaker		Turbo	50
	Sweeper		Turbo	50
Takumi Combo	Sweeper		CC1	100
	Tactician		CC1	150
Takumi Sticker Bomb		Crimson	Nitro	80
		Skyblue	Nitro	80

Very Rare

Item	Certification	Colour	Series	Price
Anodized				100
Binary			Zephyr	50
	Striker	Skyblue	Zephyr	400
		Grey	GG'21	80
		Titanium White	Zephyr	150
Blazer			Overdrive	50
Blender			TAS	50
Breakout Dot Matrix	Scorer		CC1	150
	Striker		CC1	250
Breakout Vector	Tactician		Turbo	100
Burnout (Banner)		Titanium White	GL'19	150
Candy Cane	Paragon		Secret Santa	200
DiomedesSOLD	Striker	Titanium White	Triumph	250
		Lime	Triumph	100
Dominus Snakeskin	UnCert x5		CC1	100
	Goalkeeper		CC1	120
	Victor		CC1	120
Falco		Orange		100
Fennec Bodacious	Tactician		Season 2	100
Fennec Distortion			Season 1	50
Fennec Huntress	Striker		Momentum	250
Invader		Black		400
		Cobalt		50
		Pink		50
		Titanium White		150
Jayvyn	Striker	Black	Ferocity	500
	Tactician	Titanium White	Ferocity	250
Merc Warlock	UnCert x2		CC2	150
	Guardian		CC2	150
	Striker		CC2	250
OEM		Crimson		100
		Lime		100
Polygonal	UnCert x2		CC2	100
	GoalkeeperSOLD		CC2	150
	Paragon		CC2	100
	StrikerSOLD		CC2	250
	Victor		CC2	100
Springtime Flowers	Show-Off		Spring Fever	250
Takumi Anubis	UnCert x3		CC1	100
	Goalkeeper		CC1	150
	Sniper		CC1	100
	Striker		CC1	250
Vortex		Cobalt		50
		Purple		50
		Skyblue		100

Import

Item	Certification	Colour	Series	Price
Inverted Apparatus			GG'21	FREE
Breakout		Cobalt		100
		Grey x2		150
		Orange		100
Breakout Type-S Distortion	Aviator		Players Choice	100
	Playmaker		Players Choice	100
	Scorer		Players Choice	150
	Show-Off x2		Players Choice	100
	Victor		Players Choice	100
Breakout Ripped Comic	Acrobat		Elevation	100
	Juggler		Elevation	100
	Show-Off		Elevation	100
Breakout Snakeskin	Striker x2		CC3	250
	Tactician x2		CC3	200
Centio	Acrobat	Titanium White	Overdrive	400
		Crimson	Overdrive	250
Comet		Lime	Players Choice	150
Fennec				500
Flamethrower		Black		250
Fractal Fire	Guardian		Velocity	50
		Cobalt	Velocity	100
Glitch		Cobalt	Ferocity	100
Kaleidoscope	UnCert x3		Spring Fever	250
Krackle	Guardian		TAS	50
	Tactician		TAS	50
Kyrios	Goalkeeper	Cobalt	Triumph	50
Octane ZSR Distortion	Show-Off		Players Choice	100
	Sniper		Players Choice	100
Octane Distortion	UnCert x3		CC2	150
Octane MG-88	UnCert		Revival	50
			Players ChoiceSOLD	50
	Acrobat	Orange	Revival	100
	PlaymakerSOLD		Players Choice	50
Octane Ripped Comic	Sniper		GM'23	50
Paladin		Grey		50
		Saffron		50
Pixel Fire			CC2	100
Proton	Acrobat	Crimson	GE'20	150
		Pink	GE'20	150
Sovereign A/T	Show-Off	Saffron	Beach Blast	750
Standard		Forest Green		350
Stella		Titanium White	TAS	250
Takumi	UnCert x2		CC1	150
	Guardian		CC1	150
Trinity			CC1	150

Exotic

Item	Certification	Colour	Series	Price
Draco			Players Choice	FREE
Raijin	Show-OffSOLD		GG'21	50
		Saffron	Elevation	150
Reevrb	AcrobatSOLD		GL'21	30
Zowie	Tactician	Titanium White	Ferocity	400

Black Market

Item	Certification	Colour	Series	Price
Biomass	StrikerSOLD		GP'20	100
Interstellar	Goalkeeper		Momentum	750
Neuro-AgitatorSOLD				100
Slipstream	StrikerSOLD		GE'20	150
Voxel				100

Limited

Item	Certification	Colour	Series	Price
Aero-Mage	UnCert x2			20
	Striker			50
Ballistic	UnCert x9			10
	Acrobat			10
	Scorer			20
Blast Ray	Striker			200
	Tactician x2			150
		Pink		750
Boo-ya!	UnCert x9			100
Breakout Type-S RLCS		Purple		250
Breakout CRL Western	UnCert x6			50
Breakout Dragon	UnCert x2			50
Breakout Froggy	Juggler			50
Breakout What A Save!	Acrobat			50
	Sniper			50
Carbon	Playmaker x2			10
	Scorer			20
	Show-Off			10
	Striker			50
	Victor			10
Crown (Border)		Cobalt		40
		Grey		40
		Purple		40
		Skyblue		40
Decopunk	UnCert			50
		Cobalt		100
		Forest Green		100
		Orange		100
		Pink		100
		Skyblue		100
Dominus GT RLCS	Aviator			50
	Show-Off			50
Dominus CRL Eastern	Guardian			50
	Show-Off			50
	Sniper			50
Dominus CRL Southern	Acrobat			50
Dominus Fantasmo	Paragon			50
	Show-Off			50
	Turtle			50
Dominus RLCS 2021-22	UnCert x2			50
	Sweeper
Dominus Stratum Badge	UnCert x16			20
	Acrobat			20
	Sniper			20
		Forest Green		50
EQ	Acrobat x2			150
	Juggler			150
	Playmaker			150
	Turtle			150
	Victor			150
Fennec Yorebands	Juggler			20
	Turtle			20
	Victor	Crimson		50
		Grey		50
Fusion		Grey		200
Gyre	Scorer			100
	Victor			100
Helios	Paragon	Pink		250
	Sweeper	Lime		300
	Victor	Purple		300
		Saffron		200
Hustle Brows
LFT	Guardian			200
	Playmaker			200
Octane ZSR RLCS	Playmaker			50
Octane Cobra Kai	UnCert x5			300
Octane Dr. Thrash	UnCert x13			100
Octane Dune Racer				50
Octane Killer Griller	UnCert x19			50
Octane RLCS		Forest Green x2		250
Octane RLCS 2021-22	UnCert			50
	Striker			150
Rival	UnCert x2			10
		Black		50
Rival Radiant		Burnt Sienna		50
Snowstorm				100
Statesman (Banner)	UnCert x2			FREE

Rocket Pass

Item	Certification	Colour	Series	Price (10c or Stated)
3-Lobe		Skyblue x2
3-Lobe Infinite	Aviator	Pink
		Titanium White
A-Lister		Burnt Sienna
Artifice		Purple
Ault-SPL	Goalkeeper	Lime
	Juggler	Skyblue
	Scorer	Black
		Black
		Crimson x2
		Forest Green
		Lime
		Orange
		Purple
		Saffron x2
		Skyblue
Automaton	Show-Off	Orange
BLSSM		Black
		Cobalt
Boost Boot Inverted		Lime
Cloudburst III		Cobalt		250
Corbital (Trail)		Crimson x2
		Grey
		Skyblue
Corbital (Boost)		Lime
		Orange
		Pink
		Purple
Diecast Spark		Black x2
		Cobalt
		Crimson x2
		Forest Green x2
		Pink
		Purple x2
		Saffron
		Skyblue x2
		Titanium White x2
DYR II	Paragon	Pink
	Victor	Lime
		Black x2
		Cobalt
		Saffron x2
		Titanium White
Enjin		Lime
		Pink
		Saffron
Enjin Roasted		Cobalt
		Orange
Esoto 4R	Playmaker	Titanium White
		Black
		Grey x2
		Lime
		Skyblue
Esoto 4R Inverted	Playmaker	Lime		40
	Show-Off	Titanium White		50
	Striker	Titanium White		100
	Sweeper	Crimson		40
	Turtle	Lime		40
		Crimson		30
		Forest Green x2		30
		Grey		30
		Purple		30
		Saffron x3		30
		Skyblue		30
Filliformer	Striker	Lime
	Tactician	Lime
		Cobalt
		Titanium White
Fissure		Saffron
Flame Chain		Saffron
Floppy Fish (Goal Explosion)	Goalkeeper	Cobalt		50
Forerunner		Purple
		Black
Gadabout Inverted		Grey
		Lime
Glonex Holographic		Lime
		Purple
		Saffron
		Titanium White
Haunted Hoss		Purple		50
HoloData (Trail)		Orange
HRT Beat	Show-Off	Lime
	Turtle	Skyblue
		Grey
		Orange
		Purple
Imptekk		Black x2
		Forest Green x2
		Grey x3
		Lime x2
		Orange
		Saffron x2
		Skyblue
		Titanium White x2
Jandertek		Crimson
Joko XL		Skyblue
Laserwave III	Acrobat x3			50
	Paragon			50
	Sweeper x3			50
	Tactician			100
	Turtle			50
Light Show	Guardian	Forest Green
	Paragon	Orange
		Cobalt
		Crimson x2
		Forest Green
		Lime
		Pink
		Purple
		Skyblue
		Titanium White
Mage Glass III	Paragon	Skyblue		400
	Show-Off	Saffron		400
		Black		350
		Forest Green		350
		Grey		350
		Lime		350
		Pink		350
		Skyblue		350
Maxie-PA		Black
		Crimson
		Forest Green x2
		Lime
		Orange x2
		Pink x2
		Purple x2
		Saffron x2
		Titanium White x2
Mister Monsoon (Goal Explosion)		Saffron		50
Monsoon (Boost)	Acrobat	Black		20
	Guardian	Black x2		20
	Juggler	Purple		20
	Juggler	Titanium White		20
	Playmaker	Purple x2		20
	Scorer	Forest Green		20
	Sniper	Lime		20
	Striker	Saffron		20
	Sweeper	Lime		20
	Turtle	Forest Green		20
	Victor	Pink		20
		Black x2
		Crimson x2
		Forest Green
		Grey x3
		Lime
		Orange
		Pink x3
		Purple x6
		Saffron
		Skyblue
		Titanium White x2
Nexus SC		Crimson		30
		Forest Green		30
		Purple		30
		Skyblue		30
Outlaw GXT		Cobalt		30
Parabolic		Black
		Cobalt
		Forest Green
		Grey
		Lime
		Orange
		Purple
		Titanium White
Pixel Pointer		Cobalt x2
		Crimson x2
		Forest Green
		Grey x2
		Lime
		Orange
		Pink x2
		Purple x2
		Titanium White x3
Polyergic	Sniper	Purple
	Striker	Crimson
	Turtle	Orange
		Black
		Cobalt
		Orange
		Pink
		Skyblue
		Titanium White
Polyergic Inverted		Cobalt
		Titanium White
Propeller Inverted		Cobalt		20
		Grey		20
		Skyblue		20
Riser (Goal Explosion)	Aviator	Lime
	Playmaker	Orange
	Sniper	Grey
		Black
		Crimson
		Purple
		Skyblue x2
		Titanium White
Rocko		Lime
SPN	Acrobat	Forest Green
	Goalkeeper	Orange
	Goalkeeper	Skyblue
	Paragon	Lime
	Striker	Cobalt
		Black
		Grey
		Saffron
Star Princess		Cobalt
		Crimson
		Grey x2
		Lime
		Orange x2
		Pink x2
		Purple x2
		Saffron
		Titanium White
Starpower		Cobalt
		Forest Green
		Skyblue
		Titanium White
Supernova III	Aviator x3			100
	Goalkeeper			100
	Playmaker x2			100
	Scorer			100
	Show-Off			100
	Sniper			100
	SweeperSOLD			100
	Turtle			100
		Crimson		350
Tanker		Saffron
Tanker Infinite		Cobalt
Tarnation		Burnt Sienna
Throned		Cobalt
		Grey
		Pink
		Purple
Throned Sacred		Cobalt
		Forest Green
		Orange
Tyranno GXT		Cobalt		30
		Crimson		30
		Forest Green		30
		Grey		30
		Orange		30
		Pink		30
		Saffron		30
Veski		Orange
Warp Wave		Lime
		Purple
		Titanium White
Whisperer		Skyblue
Y.O.U		Saffron
YeeHaw		Lime
Zadeh S3		Black x2
		Cobalt x2
		Crimson
		Forest Green
		Grey
		Purple x2
		Saffron x2
		Skyblue
		Titanium White x2
Zadeh S3 Inverted		Black
		Cobalt
		Crimson
		Forest Green x2
		Lime x2
		Orange x2
		Purple x2
		Saffron x2
		Skyblue
		Titanium White x2

Fodder

Item	Certification	Colour	Series	Price - YOU tell me
Aftershock Clipper	x3
Alarm Clock	x4
Aloha	x23
Avante-Garde	x7
Barbershop	x2
Battle Axe	x15
Battle Cars Anniversary (Banner)	x5
Battle Cars Anniversary (Topper)	x5
Bell	x2
Big Checker	x2
BKR	7
Blueprint I	x18
Blueprint II	x16
Breakout Type-S Zero Sum	x8
Breakout Bobcat	x5
Breakout Lycan	x14
Dominus Templar	x5
Dominus Whitewash	x7
Dominus Winter Waddle	x4
Dreidel	x8
Faboo	x2
Fallen Angel
Fighter Junk	x13
Fireworks (Decal)	x18
Fireworks (Boost)	x6
Flower Lotus	x19
FLT	x20
Fortune Fan	x19
Gift Storm	x6
Gold-Plated	x9
Hammerhead	x18
High Poly	x14
Hot Ice	x2
Mad Bomber	x18
MainStreet
Moko	x19
Octane Conundrum	x18
Periscope	x7
Pickle (Boost)	x12
Popcorn (Boost)	x18
RNSM	x5
Scoops Ahoy	x10
SDTV	x18
Shutterbug	x14
Siiiiick Reads	x10
Snare Drum	x9
Soveriegn	x15
Sticker Shock	x19
Sunset 1986 (Banner)	x23
Sure Shot	x5
Tread Heavily	x18
Udder	x16
Venom Ride	x19

Hey all! I’m moving to Myrtle beach very soon we just made a offer on a house and are very excited to live here! Now I used to live in California and when I lived there there was sand boarding (very small nothing extreme) and was wondering if you guys have a place close that have something similar to just do causally and maybe with kids. thank you guys!

Doordasher looking to build up more credit and help pay for some sudden car repairs. Repayment date obv dependent on how soon I can get it in but I’m currently scheduled for tomorrow.

This might end up being fairly long and if so I apologize in advance but I hope this ends up being as cathartic as I’m hoping.
Let’s start at the beginning. I wasn’t a good husband... hell I probably wasn't even a good person. I was selfish, inattentive to her needs, hid a painkiller addiction for many years and a copious amount of other issues. I wasn’t perfect though neither was she. We were happy though and together for a decade. I’ll preface this by saying that I’m the most non-jealous person in the world. I don’t care what you do with your friends, where you do it, and when as long as your honest. For example let’s say one of her friends invited her to go out of town or to do something for a weekend, it was like “hey are we doing anything this weekend? No? Okay I’m gonna go out of town with insert name here” and vice versa for me “hey are we doing anything this weekend? No? Okay I’m gonna go hunting with insert name here”. All that being said, again, not jealous AT ALL, but after the divorce and subsequent relationship I think my trust with SO coworkers is irreparably damaged.
His name was Joe, I heard through some of her other coworker friends he had a crush on my wife. Whatever, she got cheated on with her first love and couldn’t even watch movies or shows where someone cheats it would make her so angry. So I never thought twice about her going out with her coworkers. Now again, let me say I was not a good husband towards the end, and it took a long time and a lot of hurt and anger had to be let go to where I finally realized that I don’t fault her for finding solace in the arms of another, because she was a damn good wife, a damn good mother, and an even better husband. And she deserved better. I relapsed after an incredibly awful start to 2018. I went and stayed at my moms and had to go over to the house to get some things. Her and my daughter were gone somewhere but her Apple Watch was there. My gut told me what I already knew, and what I knew was that I shouldn't look through it knowing what I would find. What did I find? That she was filing for divorce the next week and plenty of messages to Joe. I knew it was only a matter of time before they ended up together. Can you guess what happened? I had a decent amount of money saved up so I took a sabbatical from work that ended extending to almost two years
December 2018, Christmas morning. I had a plan, it was foolproof. I was going to facetime my daughter in the morning to tell her how much I loved her and missed her and had a very merry Christmas... and then I was going to go in my backyard and blow my brains out. So thats what I did. I called her, talked to her as best you can to a three year old in the midst of a post present high with her cousins there too. Then I walked out in my backyard with my favorite rifle and sat there. And sat there. And sat there. For six hours. I cried, I wept... I wept for me, for my kid who was going to grow up without her daddy. I wept for my ex-wife who was going to have to explain to my daughter why she wouldn't be able to see her daddy again. I wept for my family and the pain I was about to cause them I begged and screamed to God. That if they were real and I was meant for things in this life that they would show me a fucking sign. Show me ANYTHING that would show me whether this drastic choice would be the right one... or the wrong. For six hours in the freezing cold. Never did get an answer that I could recognize as one. But the thought of my kid calling the person my wife had AT LEAST an emotional affair with, "Dad" made me sick... and made me want to live.
I decided to check into rehab, not for drugs, but so I didn't kill myself. Ive always kind of been a natural leader. I don't know why or what it is about me but people tend to flock towards me and have really either one or two reactions. They either really like me, or they really fucking hate me. Here though everyone really liked me and I was put in charge of running the meetings held there and trying to keep morale of the folks there. And it was a great fucking time. It was a month vacation in a really nice area of the state, I didn't have a phone, only my guitar and the resolve to work through my emotions in a safe place the best way I know how, by writing songs about it. Which is exactly what I did both in the classes, AA Meetings, out of class, didn't matter I was just knocking out song after song. I met a kid in there with a killer voice and a guy around my age who actually was the lead singesongwriter for a local band I was a fan of so it ended up being a really enjoyable experience.. The kid though... he got murdered last year from a drug deal gone wrong. Shot in a car and left to die in the parking lot. I think about him almost every day.
What did I learn? I learned that I shouldn't go looking for things I don't want to find, or ask questions that I really want the true answer to. Or so I thought.
I met K in December 2020 on Hinge. I wasn't sure I was really over my ex wife but then when we met it was love at first sight. And for a guy that didn't think he was ever going to love anyone again it was a major deal. She felt the same it seemed, though I now realize it was probably more of a trauma bond/rebound type situation. Things went really well for the honeymoon phase, it was like we couldn't get enough of each other. She was a cheer coach/art teacher, it was new, it was exciting, the sex was great.. she was great... She had some pretty serious insecurities and abandonment issues though. Her mom dropped her off with what ended up being her adoptive family only to come back a few years later and take her away for a few months, then bring her back and drop her off again. She self sabotages and destroys anything good in her life for fear or being hurt and left by someone again. And she only dated guys that controlled her, treated her like shit, stole from her, etc etc. She took xanax and ambien which when it would kick in at first it seemed she was still cognizant. One night when I was staying over there she had taken it and asked me to look something up in her phone. As soon as I open it I see a text to a coach at the school she taught at that was just really inappropriate shit that made me feel uncomfortable, especially since he was married. I asked her about it when she off work the next day and she just downplayed it as they are wont to do. I let it go but its something I thought of often, especially after it ended.
We moved in together in August of 21. I helped her get a job at a school over on my side of town so we got a really nice apartment close to her work and not far from mine. Thats when things started to change. I'll never forget we were laying in bed on a Friday afternoon, I was about to go pick up my kid. I rolled over towards her side and propped myself up and looked at her for a second and thought how lucky am I, and so thats what I said out loud to her. Its like she recoiled like she got bit by a snake, bolted out of bed and said I was being clingy and essentially ran out the door where she ended up back on the other side of town and had dinner with a gay guy friend. I really didn't know what to do or how to take it so when I picked my kid up I took her over to my moms house and we stayed there until K called and asked me to come home so we could talk. I left my kid with my mom and went over there and she apologized and reiterated how she feels in relationships, the fear of being left, how independent she had to be because of her upbringing and a few other things.
Not long after that she forwarded me an email, I'm not even sure what she meant to send me if she even meant it to send to me because I never got around to asking. It was an email thread with the coach where she said "guess what?", "What? You're gonna have my baby?" "No I got Covid!". I confronted her about it, told her how it made me feel, and while she never really responded to it in a way that made me worry I still strongly disliked it and let her know that. Not long after that as we were laying in bed I saw she was texting someone exceptionally long paragraphs, you know the type, the type when you're first talking to someone and are explaining things about yourself to them? I'll spare the long part but come to find out shes found a new coach to have what appears to be an emotional affair with. Though come to find out this one ended up being physical. She broke up with me in January 22. Told me while I showed her love in a way she didn't know was possible, and treated her in a way nobody had ever treated her before that I was too good for her and deserved better. I tried to change her mind, lord knows I tried, I was madly in love. My kid was in love with her. We talked about a future I never thought possible after my divorce.
I moved out of the apartment and back to my moms until I could find a place. We talked occasionally and I spent so much time reading this sub and others. Posts about how to get her back, how to make her miss me, what to do and what not to do. When my work sabbatical ended I got my old job back. Its a great job, ridiculously easy and the amount of work I actually do compared to my compensation should be illegal. She lost her cheer stipend when we moved back to my side of town since she didn't coach and since we got the apt together I knew what her funds looked like. We got that place because we could afford it together, alone I knew she was going to struggle. And I still wanted her back... what better way to show her that and try to manifest it by just being there for her when she needed me? Little did I know that would be the only time she asked me anything. Only when she needed help, or was having an anxiety attack and needed someone to talk her off the ledge and tell her everything was going to be okay. It was never her asking how I was doing, or my kid, or my dog, or what was going on in my life. Everyone told me what my gut had already told me but I lied to myself over and over. Not long after all this happened I found out she had been seeing the new coach at the new school though she still won't admit it even up to... checks notes today.
March 23 I get my first really big commission check I gave her 10k and we paid off her credit card, some other debt she had, some missed car payments and other bill help. Not long after that she tells me shes going to a cabin nearby where shes from with her sisters and nieces/nephews and asks me to watch her dog which I miss just as much as her so I do it. Mind you previous to this we went through a rough spot and she had blocked me on IG and never unblocked me. One of my cousins still followed her though, she hits me on snapchat saying "oh wow K looks amazing" I say "Oh yeah, does the cabin look nice?" She said "Cabin? Looks like shes at the beach" and sends me a screenshot of her IG post. I do my best FBI investigation and zoom in on her glasses, it appears to be a guy taking the picture based on the reflection from the frames and I kind of have an idea who I think it could be, come to find out, we'll call him JMJ also happens to be in Florida at the same time. So I call her out and tell her she needs to find someone to come get her dog and I'm done with her and her lies. She tells me "Oh my mom and dad are traveling across the country in their RV (WHICH THEY WERE) and so when you sent me that extra money after we paid the bills my sister and I decided to fly to Florida to spend some time with them on Spring Break"
She then breaks down and tells me how shes ruined the relationship with the last genuine person in her life and that when she gets back she'll get her dog and I'll never hear from her again. Master manipulator and while shes an amazing liar to someone who wants with every fiber of his being to believe him, is awful at hiding her lies. What do I do? Well I'm a fucking idiot so you can already imagine what I did. I begged her for once to just be honest with me. For once in our entire two years going back and forth that if she ever did truly love me or respect me for things I did for her that she would be honest. She told shes not dating anyone and doesn't have a boyfriend and that nothing has changed. I told her that even if she was seeing someone and told me about it I would help her out one last time only because I had committed to it. I told myself I was doing it for altruistic reasons, that because of all her issues that if I can do for her what I said I would do for her and that would help her out in her future relationships to show her that not everybody is it out to just fuck her and leave her, that when some people tell you they'll do something for you they mean it and she stops self sabotaging then I did my part.
A couple weeks ago was her 30th birthday. I see if she wants to grab dinner but she says one of her girl teacher friends is taking her to dinner in the galleria area. Check the guys IG story via an anonymous viewer and guess who happens to be at a restaurant in the galleria area? I don't even call her out because at this point Im making a plan. I get another rather large check in July and so we had previously talked about paying off the rest of her debt. She tells me shes going to her parents house for MDW and then that shes going out of town today with one of her old friends to New Orleans. This is when I realize just whats about to happen. Im about to have the answer to the question I thought I was dying to know the answer to. I told myself if he posts an IG story today where hes traveling, there is 0% chance that shes not with him. The first thing I see when I open IG is he posted a story... in Cancun. Then the next picture I see... her phone on the table next to him. Bingo. Send her an email saying "Hey I hope you have fun in Cancun!" and that was it. Almost immediately she texts me asking how I know and figured it out and I just saw red. I immediately opened up IG and sent him a message with texts, receipts, bank transfers, her telling me that she still loves me and we can go take a trip this summer, how many times shes asked me for money and help and the lies shes told me about him. She asks me to stop messaging him and I say that shes forever lost the option to ask ANYTHING of me but realize what Im doing is not the right thing and is hella immature so I send her another email saying I'm sorry and out of respect for her I wont say anything else to him.
Then he sends me a message on IG asking to elaborate more and then told me she told him I owed her a lot of money... I asked how much and for what and he said $2k for bills when we first got together. Thats when I sent him an entire list of all bank transactions through our bank and Apple Pay. Just digital alone, $18.647.00 over the last six months plus another $12,460.00 in cash over the last eight months. Then I realized just how little better this made me feel. In fact I thought I would feel triumphant, and ready to move on and finally be over her and start to heal. Knowing full damn and well keeping her around and helping her was keeping me from being able to heal and move on. I sent her another message telling her I was taking the last part of her birthday gift to her apartment and leaving it in the ottoman outside her door and that because I had already accounted for and mentally prepared for giving her money in July that I still would then I blocked and removed her from IG and anything else that would open up an avenue for contact.
Here we are. Starting NC again... a year and a half after we broke up all because I thought I needed the answers to what I didn't want to find out or know. And that yet again, my gut has yet to lie to me in regards to relationships. What is wrong with me? Why even after all of this do I still want her in my life and want her back? If she called me tomorrow needing help I'd probably still do it. How do I fix myself? I've gotten an entire new wardrobe, an entire home gym so I quit blaming my depression for why I didn't go to the gym, and have tried really hard to focus on myself yet I know deep down everything I'm doing, I'm still doing for hopes of her. I lied to myself and clouded my own gut and mind to listen to my heart when I knew what I already knew yet still felt the need to confirm it.
Its not worth it. IT. IS.NOT. WORTH. IT. Keep that door closed if you don't want to know whats on the other side. Don't open that book if you don't want to see whats written on that last page. If your gut is telling you something, its probably right. Listen to it. When your friends and family are telling you the same thing your gut is telling you, listen to them. Even if its killing you, even if its the last thing you want to do, even if its going to break your heart again and reopen any wounds for you to bleed out again it has to be done. Don't be like me. Don't prolong your suffering for a year and a half for hope that you know isn't going to shake out in your way regardless of what the other person might be telling you.

This might end up being fairly long and if so I apologize in advance but I hope this ends up being as cathartic as I’m hoping.
Let’s start at the beginning. I wasn’t a good husband... hell I probably wasn't even a good person. I was selfish, inattentive to her needs, hid a painkiller addiction for many years and a copious amount of other issues. I wasn’t perfect though neither was she. We were happy though and together for a decade. I’ll preface this by saying that I’m the most non-jealous person in the world. I don’t care what you do with your friends, where you do it, and when as long as your honest. For example let’s say one of her friends invited her to go out of town or to do something for a weekend, it was like “hey are we doing anything this weekend? No? Okay I’m gonna go out of town with insert name here” and vice versa for me “hey are we doing anything this weekend? No? Okay I’m gonna go hunting with insert name here”. All that being said, again, not jealous AT ALL, but after the divorce and subsequent relationship I think my trust with SO coworkers is irreparably damaged.
His name was Joe, I heard through some of her other coworker friends he had a crush on my wife. Whatever, she got cheated on with her first love and couldn’t even watch movies or shows where someone cheats it would make her so angry. So I never thought twice about her going out with her coworkers. Now again, let me say I was not a good husband towards the end, and it took a long time and a lot of hurt and anger had to be let go to where I finally realized that I don’t fault her for finding solace in the arms of another, because she was a damn good wife, a damn good mother, and an even better person. And she deserved better. I relapsed after an incredibly awful start to 2018. I went and stayed at my moms and had to go over to the house to get some things. Her and my daughter were gone somewhere but her Apple Watch was there. My gut told me what I already knew, and what I knew was that I shouldn't look through it knowing what I would find. What did I find? That she was filing for divorce the next week and plenty of messages to Joe. I knew it was only a matter of time before they ended up together. Can you guess what happened? I had a decent amount of money saved up so I took a sabbatical from work that ended extending to almost two years
December 2018, Christmas morning. I had a plan, it was foolproof. I was going to facetime my daughter in the morning to tell her how much I loved her and missed her and had a very merry Christmas... and then I was going to go in my backyard and blow my brains out. So thats what I did. I called her, talked to her as best you can to a three year old in the midst of a post present high with her cousins there too. Then I walked out in my backyard with my favorite rifle and sat there. And sat there. And sat there. For six hours. I cried, I wept... I wept for me, for my kid who was going to grow up without her daddy. I wept for my ex-wife who was going to have to explain to my daughter why she wouldn't be able to see her daddy again. I wept for my family and the pain I was about to cause them I begged and screamed to God. That if they were real and I was meant for things in this life that they would show me a fucking sign. Show me ANYTHING that would show me whether this drastic choice would be the right one... or the wrong. For six hours in the freezing cold. Never did get an answer that I could recognize as one. But the thought of my kid calling the person my wife had AT LEAST an emotional affair with, "Dad" made me sick... and made me want to live.
I decided to check into rehab, not for drugs, but so I didn't kill myself. Ive always kind of been a natural leader. I don't know why or what it is about me but people tend to flock towards me and have really either one or two reactions. They either really like me, or they really fucking hate me. Here though everyone really liked me and I was put in charge of running the meetings held there and trying to keep morale of the folks there. And it was a great fucking time. It was a month vacation in a really nice area of the state, I didn't have a phone, only my guitar and the resolve to work through my emotions in a safe place the best way I know how, by writing songs about it. Which is exactly what I did both in the classes, AA Meetings, out of class, didn't matter I was just knocking out song after song. I met a kid in there with a killer voice and a guy around my age who actually was the lead singesongwriter for a local band I was a fan of so it ended up being a really enjoyable experience.. The kid though... he got murdered last year from a drug deal gone wrong. Shot in a car and left to die in the parking lot. I think about him almost every day.
What did I learn? I learned that I shouldn't go looking for things I don't want to find, or ask questions that I really want the true answer to. Or so I thought.
I met K in December 2020 on Hinge. I wasn't sure I was really over my ex wife but then when we met it was love at first sight. And for a guy that didn't think he was ever going to love anyone again it was a major deal. She felt the same it seemed, though I now realize it was probably more of a trauma bond/rebound type situation. Things went really well for the honeymoon phase, it was like we couldn't get enough of each other. She was a cheer coach/art teacher, it was new, it was exciting, the sex was great.. she was great... She had some pretty serious insecurities and abandonment issues though. Her mom dropped her off with what ended up being her adoptive family only to come back a few years later and take her away for a few months, then bring her back and drop her off again. She self sabotages and destroys anything good in her life for fear or being hurt and left by someone again. And she only dated guys that controlled her, treated her like shit, stole from her, etc etc. She took xanax and ambien which when it would kick in at first it seemed she was still cognizant. One night when I was staying over there she had taken it and asked me to look something up in her phone. As soon as I open it I see a text to a coach at the school she taught at that was just really inappropriate shit that made me feel uncomfortable, especially since he was married. I asked her about it when she off work the next day and she just downplayed it as they are wont to do. I let it go but its something I thought of often, especially after it ended.
We moved in together in August of 21. I helped her get a job at a school over on my side of town so we got a really nice apartment close to her work and not far from mine. Thats when things started to change. I'll never forget we were laying in bed on a Friday afternoon, I was about to go pick up my kid. I rolled over towards her side and propped myself up and looked at her for a second and thought how lucky am I, and so thats what I said out loud to her. Its like she recoiled like she got bit by a snake, bolted out of bed and said I was being clingy and essentially ran out the door where she ended up back on the other side of town and had dinner with a gay guy friend. I really didn't know what to do or how to take it so when I picked my kid up I took her over to my moms house and we stayed there until K called and asked me to come home so we could talk. I left my kid with my mom and went over there and she apologized and reiterated how she feels in relationships, the fear of being left, how independent she had to be because of her upbringing and a few other things.
Not long after that she forwarded me an email, I'm not even sure what she meant to send me if she even meant it to send to me because I never got around to asking. It was an email thread with the coach where she said "guess what?", "What? You're gonna have my baby?" "No I got Covid!". I confronted her about it, told her how it made me feel, and while she never really responded to it in a way that made me worry I still strongly disliked it and let her know that. Not long after that as we were laying in bed I saw she was texting someone exceptionally long paragraphs, you know the type, the type when you're first talking to someone and are explaining things about yourself to them? I'll spare the long part but come to find out shes found a new coach to have what appears to be an emotional affair with. Though come to find out this one ended up being physical. She broke up with me in January 22. Told me while I showed her love in a way she didn't know was possible, and treated her in a way nobody had ever treated her before that I was too good for her and deserved better. I tried to change her mind, lord knows I tried, I was madly in love. My kid was in love with her. We talked about a future I never thought possible after my divorce.
I moved out of the apartment and back to my moms until I could find a place. We talked occasionally and I spent so much time reading this sub and others. Posts about how to get her back, how to make her miss me, what to do and what not to do. When my work sabbatical ended I got my old job back. Its a great job, ridiculously easy and the amount of work I actually do compared to my compensation should be illegal. She lost her cheer stipend when we moved back to my side of town since she didn't coach and since we got the apt together I knew what her funds looked like. We got that place because we could afford it together, alone I knew she was going to struggle. And I still wanted her back... what better way to show her that and try to manifest it by just being there for her when she needed me? Little did I know that would be the only time she asked me anything. Only when she needed help, or was having an anxiety attack and needed someone to talk her off the ledge and tell her everything was going to be okay. It was never her asking how I was doing, or my kid, or my dog, or what was going on in my life. Everyone told me what my gut had already told me but I lied to myself over and over. Not long after all this happened I found out she had been seeing the new coach at the new school though she still won't admit it even up to... checks notes today.
March 23 I get my first really big commission check I gave her 10k and we paid off her credit card, some other debt she had, some missed car payments and other bill help. Not long after that she tells me shes going to a cabin nearby where shes from with her sisters and nieces/nephews and asks me to watch her dog which I miss just as much as her so I do it. Mind you previous to this we went through a rough spot and she had blocked me on IG and never unblocked me. One of my cousins still followed her though, she hits me on snapchat saying "oh wow K looks amazing" I say "Oh yeah, does the cabin look nice?" She said "Cabin? Looks like shes at the beach" and sends me a screenshot of her IG post. I do my best FBI investigation and zoom in on her glasses, it appears to be a guy taking the picture based on the reflection from the frames and I kind of have an idea who I think it could be, come to find out, we'll call him JMJ also happens to be in Florida at the same time. So I call her out and tell her she needs to find someone to come get her dog and I'm done with her and her lies. She tells me "Oh my mom and dad are traveling across the country in their RV (WHICH THEY WERE) and so when you sent me that extra money after we paid the bills my sister and I decided to fly to Florida to spend some time with them on Spring Break"
She then breaks down and tells me how shes ruined the relationship with the last genuine person in her life and that when she gets back she'll get her dog and I'll never hear from her again. Master manipulator and while shes an amazing liar to someone who wants with every fiber of his being to believe him, is awful at hiding her lies. What do I do? Well I'm a fucking idiot so you can already imagine what I did. I begged her for once to just be honest with me. For once in our entire two years going back and forth that if she ever did truly love me or respect me for things I did for her that she would be honest. She told shes not dating anyone and doesn't have a boyfriend and that nothing has changed. I told her that even if she was seeing someone and told me about it I would help her out one last time only because I had committed to it. I told myself I was doing it for altruistic reasons, that because of all her issues that if I can do for her what I said I would do for her and that would help her out in her future relationships to show her that not everybody is it out to just fuck her and leave her, that when some people tell you they'll do something for you they mean it and she stops self sabotaging then I did my part.
A couple weeks ago was her 30th birthday. I see if she wants to grab dinner but she says one of her girl teacher friends is taking her to dinner in the galleria area. Check the guys IG story via an anonymous viewer and guess who happens to be at a restaurant in the galleria area? I don't even call her out because at this point Im making a plan. I get another rather large check in July and so we had previously talked about paying off the rest of her debt. She tells me shes going to her parents house for MDW and then that shes going out of town today with one of her old friends to New Orleans. This is when I realize just whats about to happen. Im about to have the answer to the question I thought I was dying to know the answer to. I told myself if he posts an IG story today where hes traveling, there is 0% chance that shes not with him. The first thing I see when I open IG is he posted a story... in Cancun. Then the next picture I see... her phone on the table next to him. Bingo. Send her an email saying "Hey I hope you have fun in Cancun!" and that was it. Almost immediately she texts me asking how I know and figured it out and I just saw red. I immediately opened up IG and sent him a message with texts, receipts, bank transfers, her telling me that she still loves me and we can go take a trip this summer, how many times shes asked me for money and help and the lies shes told me about him. She asks me to stop messaging him and I say that shes forever lost the option to ask ANYTHING of me but realize what Im doing is not the right thing and is hella immature so I send her another email saying I'm sorry and out of respect for her I wont say anything else to him.
Then he sends me a message on IG asking to elaborate more and then told me she told him I owed her a lot of money... I asked how much and for what and he said $2k for bills when we first got together. Thats when I sent him an entire list of all bank transactions through our bank and Apple Pay. Just digital alone, $18.647.00 over the last six months plus another $12,460.00 in cash over the last eight months. Then I realized just how little better this made me feel. In fact I thought I would feel triumphant, and ready to move on and finally be over her and start to heal. Knowing full damn and well keeping her around and helping her was keeping me from being able to heal and move on. I sent her another message telling her I was taking the last part of her birthday gift to her apartment and leaving it in the ottoman outside her door and that because I had already accounted for and mentally prepared for giving her money in July that I still would then I blocked and removed her from IG and anything else that would open up an avenue for contact.
Here we are. Starting NC again... a year and a half after we broke up all because I thought I needed the answers to what I didn't want to find out or know. And that yet again, my gut has yet to lie to me in regards to relationships. What is wrong with me? Why even after all of this do I still want her in my life and want her back? If she called me tomorrow needing help I'd probably still do it. How do I fix myself? I've gotten an entire new wardrobe, an entire home gym so I quit blaming my depression for why I didn't go to the gym, and have tried really hard to focus on myself yet I know deep down everything I'm doing, I'm still doing for hopes of her. I lied to myself and clouded my own gut and mind to listen to my heart when I knew what I already knew yet still felt the need to confirm it.
Its not worth it. IT. IS.NOT. WORTH. IT. Keep that door closed if you don't want to know whats on the other side. Don't open that book if you don't want to see whats written on that last page. If your gut is telling you something, its probably right. Listen to it. When your friends and family are telling you the same thing your gut is telling you, listen to them. Even if its killing you, even if its the last thing you want to do, even if its going to break your heart again and reopen any wounds for you to bleed out again it has to be done. Don't be like me. Don't prolong your suffering for a year and a half for hope that you know isn't going to shake out in your way regardless of what the other person might be telling you.

So, my family is planning a beach getaway and one of the most important things to us is accessibility for me and my service dog. Has anyone here taken their service dog on an enjoyable beach vacation and if so, where did you go? One of the most important things I'm looking for is a beach that allows service dogs outside of pet-friendly hours so I can enjoy the beach without the worry of untrained dogs bothering him. Some of the destinations we were looking at include Myrtle Beach, Rosemary Beach, and Tybee Island but we're pretty open.

My sisters (21F and 22F) and I (25F) have been talking about saving up all summer and then selling all of our belongings and up and moving to Belize with my child (5F)
We currently live in North Carolina and adore the warm weather and beach life. We’re happiest in the summer and our best selves in the summer. We crave to be on the water and living a simple happy life. We have been talking about moving out of the US for months and months now, lately we’ve began thinking “what’s stopping us?” We want to be somewhere tropical, beachy and happy. Other than immediate family (our parents and younger siblings) we have no ties to NC. I guess the main issue would be money and potentially changing our minds about the area once we live there awhile, but we can’t break this thought of WHAT IF? WHY CANT WE JUST GO? Is it worth it to at least try?
Is it crazy to up and leave and start new down there? Is it even possible? Is the school system worth getting my daughter into? Could we make a happy and stable lives for ourselves and my child?
If the answer is yes, how do we start this process?

• We aren’t crazy, I swear! Just three sisters trying to make the most of our lives :)

We currently live in Florida and having a house built in the Bluffton area. The house will not be completed until Jan of 24. Our current house is sold and we will move into our condo in NC. by July 1st.
Now the complexity, my registration in FL is due for renewal in November. What are my alternatives. Get a new drivers license in NC and register the car in NC . Or somehow wait till we move to SC do both licensee and registration then. All suggestions are welcome.
We do have a mailing address in FL, we have a mailing address in NC and we have a signed contract for the house in SC.

Hello! I’m an 18F SB seeking a SD. I value a real connection and would like to meet in person. Looking for someone near the SC/NC/GA line !

Omw to Myrtle Beach Looking for the BEST BBQ… Also what kind of rub/sauce they use. Is it the mustard one as in NC?

So I’m (31F) taking my first vacation in over 26 years. I have one weekend “vacation” planned and then a week long one.
First one is going to Virginia Beach for 2 days with my whole family (11 people) for my oldest nieces birthday - I want some ideas there are kids ranging from 2-13 (5 total)
The 2nd one is to Charleston SC for 5 days this will be only myself, my son (2), niece (13 by then), and my mom.- I would love some ideas for this. It’s an early birthday present for him & a late one for my niece from me.
I need help!
-Kid friendly -Free/ under $15 for admission per person -Food places -Good sunset views -Fountains (my son loves them) -& of course beaches