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2023.03.24 14:25 Supersalty99 “It’s like this is my do-over”
I heard the words come out of my mothers mouth and now everything she does with my son makes me sick. A little backstory, my fiancé, myself, and our child live with my mother right now to save money since the housing market is so high. It’s what made the most sense so we could buy a house sooner. One night, my mom and I were up talking and she slipped in the comment that having my son around was “like her do-over”. She wasn’t a good parent to me throughout childhood and only recently has become a “mother” I basically raised myself. She didn’t start being a mom to me until I was almost an adult, even then she was more of a friend rather than a mother. I was frequently neglected or passed off onto my grandparents and they’re the closest things I have to actual parents. So when my mom said that my son was her do-over it broke me into a million tiny pieces and I finally noticed everything. She constantly calls him “her baby” she will buy him stuff, and later throw in our face that “she provided most everything for him” she tells me what to do with him when shes home(i.e “feed him this, he’s hungry.” “Clean off his high chair first” “pick him up”) basically constantly telling me what to do with him while we’re home. In public she always tries to push the cart or stroller. The other night she tried to get me to put him in the shower with her instead of putting him in his own bath. I don’t even shower with him. It feels like she treats me like I’m the babysitter for my OWN baby. She treats him with love and care and compassion, and while I’m glad because my son deserves that and more, my inner child is screaming and crying and angry because I deserve(d) that. I do EVERYTHING for my child, I never pass him onto anyone else, never ask for help. I give him so much love and patience. I think I’m a good mom. I don’t work days so I’m with him every hour he’s awake. It just makes me so mad because he’s getting the version of my mom that I deserved. The stable version. The loving version. The version of her that didn’t spend weekends in the bar or money on alcohol and drugs. I feel like she is overstepping her place as a grandma. And i dont know if it’s because I’m delusional due to trauma, or if she really is overstepping. Help.
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2023.03.24 14:25 fideloper Is this water filter right for this house?
 | I live in CT, our water is high in iron according to water tests done a few months ago (our house has well and septic). submitted by fideloper to Plumbing [link] [comments]
I got a pack of these filters but I'm second guessing if they're the right kind/size (they seem skinnier!) https://preview.redd.it/nq100gijuopa1.jpg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f9bf11b7f30b26eaa89c1c51261df53942bba77b https://preview.redd.it/px55heijuopa1.jpg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b5e2a0d44577fc3b9a3efb38854499a9cad81d6c https://preview.redd.it/d684khijuopa1.jpg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7d99483a12a8f4317e5b46d4bf620fe3323f0197 |
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2023.03.24 14:23 SouthNagsHead PETA wanted Murdaugh Hunting Trophies, Turtle-Shell Lamps to be Donated instead of Sold
 | The Island Packet - submitted by SouthNagsHead to MurdaughFamilyMurders [link] [comments] PETA asks for Murdaugh animal trophies for sale be donated Hilton Head Island Packet https://preview.redd.it/es0kswevuopa1.png?width=1140&format=png&auto=webp&s=35c8aca9f9df5f77b97076d0ba41acc3c1e1249e Hours before items once owned by the Murdaugh family were to be auctioned off, PETA asked that hunting trophies and other items it considered questionable be donated to its own museum. The sale was scheduled to be held Thursday evening by Liberty Auctions, an auction house in Pembroke, Georgia, showcasing several items including a leather sofa set, dishware, and other furniture that previously belonged to the family of convicted murderer Alex Murdaugh. Some of the items included turtle-shell lamps and various mounted hunting trophies, including more than a dozen deer antler mounts, which caught the attention of People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals, an organization known for its protests against animal cruelty and mistreatment. Ingrid Newkirk, the organization’s president, sent a letter Thursday to Liberty Auction owner Lori Mattingly asking her to reconsider putting the items for sale. Instead, Newkirk said in the letter, the items should instead be donated to PETA’s Museum of Atrocities Against Animals. “Violence should have no place in our society, and we’re hoping you’ll donate the tortoise-shell lamps, mounted heads, and other decorations created at the expense of animals’ lives,” Newkirk said in the letter. “Your donation would help educate people about the trade in exotic-animal parts and hunting and encourage them to value kindness over cruelty.” https://preview.redd.it/q4h5puhsuopa1.png?width=1140&format=png&auto=webp&s=8b962a0d65de65cbe585515e8b0d8d8eeb2fde86 PETA officials have been working on the museum, which is “meant to educate,” for the past few years and are still compiling items for its collection, said spokesperson Ashley Byrne. Some items already cataloged include a monkey fur coat, circus whips and photos documenting PETA investigations into fur farms. “I really do think we should give thought to how future generations will view our treatment of animals,” Byrne said. “It’s a worthwhile project because our values have already changed a lot in regard to how we treat animals, and they will continue to change.” PETA had not heard back from Mattingly or Liberty Auctions as of Thursday afternoon. Get unlimited digital access A representative from Liberty Auctions could not immediately be reached for comment about PETA’s request. MURDAUGH BACKGROUND Alex Murdaugh, whose prominent family created a legal dynasty in South Carolina’s Lowcountry for over a century, was given two life sentences earlier this month for killing his wife and son, Maggie and Paul Murdaugh, in June 2021. His attorneys, Dick Harpootlian and Jim Griffin, have filed a notice of appeal with the courts. Murdaugh also faces charges for over 100 financial crimes for money stolen from clients he represented as an attorney and from the law firm where he worked and that his family started. The trial garnered nationwide media attention and documentaries from several media giants including CNN, HBO and Netflix. In addition to the murders, the multi-episode series also focus on the deaths of people close to the family including the family housekeeper, Gloria Satterfield; Mallory Beach, Paul Murdaugh’s classmate who died in a 2019 boat crash; and Stephen Smith, a classmate of Murdaugh’s oldest son, Buster, who was previously thought to have died in a 2015 hit-and-run. Beach’s family has filed a multimillion-dollar wrongful death lawsuit against several Murdaugh family members and Parker’s gas station for allegedly selling alcohol the day of the crash to Paul Murdaugh while he was underage. A trial for the lawsuit is set to begin on Aug. 14. Earlier this week, the South Carolina Law Enforcement Division said it now considers Smith’s death a homicide and the investigation is ongoing. In a statement via his lawyers earlier this week, Buster Murdaugh denied any involvement in Smith’s death. A GoFundMe set up by the Smith family to raise money to perform an independent exhumation of the 19-year-old’s body and start a new investigation has raised over $100,000 of its $15,000 goal as of Thursday. |
2023.03.24 14:23 Logical-Possible-846 Top 10 Best Wi-Fi Router
Figuring out what the best router for your needs can be complicated. We've tested the top Wi-Fi router brands so you can find the right one for your needs.
Take a look at this list: https://quizience.com/best-wi-fi-routers-for-2022/
TP-Link Archer AX21
Best budget router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX1800
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Available for $100 (or less if you catch a sale), the TP-Link Archer AX21 is an entry-level, dual-band Wi-Fi 6 router that supports top speeds of up to 1,201Mbps (1.2Gbps) on its 5GHz band. It's nothing fancy, but it offered near flawless performance for small- to medium-size homes in our tests, and it's a cinch to setup and use thanks to TP-Link's Tether app.
Best of all, when tested against other, similar routers from names like Asus and Netgear, the AX21 held its own with faster download speeds, better range, and low latency, too. Add in a functional bandsteering mode that automatically steers you between the 2.4 and 5GHz bands within a single network, plus guest network controls and even a quality of service engine for prioritizing traffic to the most important devices on your network, and you're looking at a decent home networking upgrade that's as simple and affordable as it gets. It isn't powerful enough to max out speeds on a gigabit network, but it can still hit consistent close-range speeds near 700Mbps or so, which is more than enough for most households. Read our TP-Link Archer AX21 review.
Linksys Hydra Pro 6 (MR5500)
Best midrange router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5400
Range
Up to 2,700 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
If you've already got a budget router running your network and you're ready to upgrade to something more powerful, the Linksys Hydra Pro 6 belongs high on your list. With a dual-band, AX5400 build, full support for Wi-Fi 6, and 160MHz channel support for moving data more efficiently, it was an excellent performer in my speed tests, even managing to outperform flashier picks like the also great Asus RT-AX86U.
The Hydra Pro 6 is a touch pricey as dual-band routers go, but the steady, consistent performance makes it a standout. Try and catch it on sale if you can, but if you just want a reliable, no-frills router that can keep up with gigabit speeds, look no further. Read our Linksys Hydra Pro 6 review.
TP-Link Deco W7200
Best mesh router overall
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX3600
Range
Up to 5,500 sq. ft. (two devices)
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Tri-Band (2.4 and two 5GHz)
For the best performance from your mesh router, you'll want to prioritize getting one with support for Wi-Fi 6, plus a tri-band design that includes three separate bands of traffic: the usual 2.4 and 5GHz bands, plus an additional 5GHz band that the system can use as a dedicated wireless backhaul for transmissions between the router and its satellites. Most mesh routers like that cost at least $300 or even $400, but the TP-Link Deco W7200 gets you there for less than $250.
That's the best deal I've seen for a tri-band mesh router with support for Wi-Fi 6 -- and sure enough, it's an excellent performer, as well. In fact, the only system that managed to outperform it outright in my at-home speed tests is the AX6000 version of Netgear Orbi, which costs more than three times as much (keep reading for more on that one). On top of that, TP-Link's setup process is about as easy as it gets, with satellite extenders that automatically join the mesh as soon as you plug them in. Read our TP-Link Deco W7200 review.
Asus RT-AX86U
Best gaming router
Wi-Fi standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5700
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Gaming routers promise high performance and low latency for die-hard gamers, and it isn't uncommon to find them selling for $300 or even $400. At about $270 or less, the Asus RT-AX86U dual-band router isn't inexpensive either, but it's a strong value relative to routers like those -- and the performance it delivers as a gaming router is flat-out great.
Most noteworthy is the router's latency management. In fact, it leads all of the routers I've ever tested, gaming or otherwise, with the lowest average latency across all of my tests, which online gamers will definitely appreciate. Something else you'll appreciate: An excellent mix of app-based controls and features, including a mobile boost mode, that lets you prioritize gaming traffic to your phone at the touch of a button.
Gaming features aside, the RT-AX86U offers full support for Wi-Fi 6, with strong, stable speeds and good range. If you need additional range, you can add other Asus "AIMesh" devices to your home network to make it the centerpiece of a mesh.
That checks off all of the boxes that most people want from a good gaming router, and it gets you there at a price that isn't too painful for us to recommend. Even if you aren't a gamer, this is still one of the best Wi-Fi 6 routers you can buy right now. Read our list of the best gaming routers.
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Take a look at this list: https://quizience.com/best-wi-fi-routers-for-2022/
TP-Link Archer AX21
Best budget router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX1800
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Available for $100 (or less if you catch a sale), the TP-Link Archer AX21 is an entry-level, dual-band Wi-Fi 6 router that supports top speeds of up to 1,201Mbps (1.2Gbps) on its 5GHz band. It's nothing fancy, but it offered near flawless performance for small- to medium-size homes in our tests, and it's a cinch to setup and use thanks to TP-Link's Tether app.
Best of all, when tested against other, similar routers from names like Asus and Netgear, the AX21 held its own with faster download speeds, better range, and low latency, too. Add in a functional bandsteering mode that automatically steers you between the 2.4 and 5GHz bands within a single network, plus guest network controls and even a quality of service engine for prioritizing traffic to the most important devices on your network, and you're looking at a decent home networking upgrade that's as simple and affordable as it gets. It isn't powerful enough to max out speeds on a gigabit network, but it can still hit consistent close-range speeds near 700Mbps or so, which is more than enough for most households. Read our TP-Link Archer AX21 review.
Linksys Hydra Pro 6 (MR5500)
Best midrange router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5400
Range
Up to 2,700 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
If you've already got a budget router running your network and you're ready to upgrade to something more powerful, the Linksys Hydra Pro 6 belongs high on your list. With a dual-band, AX5400 build, full support for Wi-Fi 6, and 160MHz channel support for moving data more efficiently, it was an excellent performer in my speed tests, even managing to outperform flashier picks like the also great Asus RT-AX86U.
The Hydra Pro 6 is a touch pricey as dual-band routers go, but the steady, consistent performance makes it a standout. Try and catch it on sale if you can, but if you just want a reliable, no-frills router that can keep up with gigabit speeds, look no further. Read our Linksys Hydra Pro 6 review.
TP-Link Deco W7200
Best mesh router overall
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX3600
Range
Up to 5,500 sq. ft. (two devices)
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Tri-Band (2.4 and two 5GHz)
For the best performance from your mesh router, you'll want to prioritize getting one with support for Wi-Fi 6, plus a tri-band design that includes three separate bands of traffic: the usual 2.4 and 5GHz bands, plus an additional 5GHz band that the system can use as a dedicated wireless backhaul for transmissions between the router and its satellites. Most mesh routers like that cost at least $300 or even $400, but the TP-Link Deco W7200 gets you there for less than $250.
That's the best deal I've seen for a tri-band mesh router with support for Wi-Fi 6 -- and sure enough, it's an excellent performer, as well. In fact, the only system that managed to outperform it outright in my at-home speed tests is the AX6000 version of Netgear Orbi, which costs more than three times as much (keep reading for more on that one). On top of that, TP-Link's setup process is about as easy as it gets, with satellite extenders that automatically join the mesh as soon as you plug them in. Read our TP-Link Deco W7200 review.
Asus RT-AX86U
Best gaming router
Wi-Fi standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5700
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Gaming routers promise high performance and low latency for die-hard gamers, and it isn't uncommon to find them selling for $300 or even $400. At about $270 or less, the Asus RT-AX86U dual-band router isn't inexpensive either, but it's a strong value relative to routers like those -- and the performance it delivers as a gaming router is flat-out great.
Most noteworthy is the router's latency management. In fact, it leads all of the routers I've ever tested, gaming or otherwise, with the lowest average latency across all of my tests, which online gamers will definitely appreciate. Something else you'll appreciate: An excellent mix of app-based controls and features, including a mobile boost mode, that lets you prioritize gaming traffic to your phone at the touch of a button.
Gaming features aside, the RT-AX86U offers full support for Wi-Fi 6, with strong, stable speeds and good range. If you need additional range, you can add other Asus "AIMesh" devices to your home network to make it the centerpiece of a mesh.
That checks off all of the boxes that most people want from a good gaming router, and it gets you there at a price that isn't too painful for us to recommend. Even if you aren't a gamer, this is still one of the best Wi-Fi 6 routers you can buy right now. Read our list of the best gaming routers.
2023.03.24 14:23 beautycase Melara - Burning Leaves of Fire Leaving a Trunk of Wax
A night and a starry sky.
This Melara saw from her carriage before arriving in Ashemark.
Below her, only the slowly deteriorating wood, but above...
Melara was lost looking at the stars and imagined for a moment that she could reach them, and collect them one by one.
But for the time being she merely collected them in her memory, creating drawings in her mind with them and storing them in that light box that men call daydreams.
Melara had them all, none of those stars escaped her gaze and none of those possibilities escaped her ambition.
Mina was like her, too big to walk on such fragile ground and too thirsty to be content with the drops that came to her from above.
Both of them always looked to the sky, never to what they had.
But what else should they have been looking at?
What little they had been given by fate or the wretches who did not even have that?
Their friendship was based on a common closeness and awareness.
That they both deserved more than what they had.
Her brother Herrock told her that her role was that of an ornament, to be a pretty object that her future husband would brag about.
Melara wanted to poison him, or suffocate him at night.
But that meant she would become Lady of Crakehall, and even that was not enough for her.
So she saw the signs of House Marbrand, and closed her eyes sleeping for a while.
She dreamed of leaves of fire burning, leaving a trunk of wax.
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This Melara saw from her carriage before arriving in Ashemark.
Below her, only the slowly deteriorating wood, but above...
Melara was lost looking at the stars and imagined for a moment that she could reach them, and collect them one by one.
But for the time being she merely collected them in her memory, creating drawings in her mind with them and storing them in that light box that men call daydreams.
Melara had them all, none of those stars escaped her gaze and none of those possibilities escaped her ambition.
Mina was like her, too big to walk on such fragile ground and too thirsty to be content with the drops that came to her from above.
Both of them always looked to the sky, never to what they had.
But what else should they have been looking at?
What little they had been given by fate or the wretches who did not even have that?
Their friendship was based on a common closeness and awareness.
That they both deserved more than what they had.
Her brother Herrock told her that her role was that of an ornament, to be a pretty object that her future husband would brag about.
Melara wanted to poison him, or suffocate him at night.
But that meant she would become Lady of Crakehall, and even that was not enough for her.
So she saw the signs of House Marbrand, and closed her eyes sleeping for a while.
She dreamed of leaves of fire burning, leaving a trunk of wax.
2023.03.24 14:23 soft-weirdling RSD is currently destroying me and I'm considering giving my soon to be ex custody.
I just couldn't with life this morning. We ran so late to school, I decided not to bring the kids because they keep getting tardy. My husband made a post on his Facebook account he was going to get off of it but will keep his Instagram (which I don't have), then he is trying to pass our family Walmart account to me because he doesn't use it (he does buy thing there all the time and the login is with his email). I should add that we are living in different states and I am living at my dad's house with the kids. I feel so selfish for letting these feelings of abandonment from my husband affect me so much that then I also neglected taking my kids to school and giving them breakfast.
I'm really wondering if giving my husband custody will be best for them.
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I'm really wondering if giving my husband custody will be best for them.
2023.03.24 14:23 sdrazen [WTS][ON] Accessories to go
Items located in Toronto, local sale preferred. Shipping is extra.
https://imgur.com/a/nCcHDin
https://imgur.com/a/VHHBfkG
BCM FDE MOD 0 - Repro - $25
FDE SOPMOD - $15
Black CTR stock - Regular butt pad, not pictured here, please ask - $20
https://imgur.com/a/mlWrMZE
PEQ
These PEQ are very good quality, the button has nice tactile feel. Yes they all work. never gamed. Doesnt come with pressure pad, or batteries. No trades.
https://imgur.com/a/0Ya7vVe
Bottom: Painted, Green laser, bright light - $40
Located in GTA, shipping not included, but will be using a CP Small box ($19.99 plus tax) shipped throughout Canada
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https://imgur.com/a/nCcHDin
https://imgur.com/a/VHHBfkG
- M4 furniture - $50 for all
- painted wilcox mount for aimpoint M2 - $5 comes with 2 screws only.
- VFC MP5 High output valve - $5
- WE m4 charging handle - $10
- M6x light - $20
- Zenitco B16 rail (once screw is missing, but it still holds), long rail extension - $10 each
- Eotech 551 - $40 comes with killflash - https://imgur.com/a/ABN7ABU
- .mlok rail - need a barrel nut - $20 - https://imgur.com/a/pu9sHjx
BCM FDE MOD 0 - Repro - $25
FDE SOPMOD - $15
Black CTR stock - Regular butt pad, not pictured here, please ask - $20
https://imgur.com/a/mlWrMZE
PEQ
These PEQ are very good quality, the button has nice tactile feel. Yes they all work. never gamed. Doesnt come with pressure pad, or batteries. No trades.
https://imgur.com/a/0Ya7vVe
Bottom: Painted, Green laser, bright light - $40
Located in GTA, shipping not included, but will be using a CP Small box ($19.99 plus tax) shipped throughout Canada
2023.03.24 14:22 trivik0 There are luxury hotels in Chikmagalur:
 | submitted by trivik0 to u/trivik0 [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/an91bba0uopa1.jpg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0c0316df5d8f0caba0aea8ea4c81a8a56024db4b Chikmagalur, a slant resort in southwest India, is one of just a modest bunch of exemptions that blends the overflow of nature in with animals, experience, remarkable districts, and coffee. The region is perfect for a week’s end escape since it welcomes you to another oxygen retreat and wonderful vegetation. Chikmagalur is prominent for being a mix of various social orders and religions despite its entrancing greatness. Chikmagalur is short for Energetic Young lady’s Town in English. Numerous people envision that this region filled in as an offer for Rukmangada’s young lady. This incline station, which is 3400 feet above sea level, transports you to a mystical spot of separation. There is a thing to do in Chikmagalur, yet the following are a couple of things you should do while visiting the hotels in Chikmagalur. Coffee Grounds — Empower Your Taste Buds : The presence of different coffee areas in Chikmagalur is striking. Maybe the most superb thing to do in Chikmagalur is to take a stroll among the coffee fields. Honestly, this development is given by endless homestays in the Karnataka region that are organized clearly inside coffee farms in Chikmagalur and Coorg. You will get all-around bits of knowledge concerning the complete coffee-conveying process in the event that you take a coordinated visit. This moment is the best opportunity to restore your taste buds with a recently matured cup of coffee as the coordinated visit settles. While you taste, make sure to check out the abundant vegetation here. This exercise will guarantee you a great experience in the event that you have never had a veritable coffee. Hebbe Falls: An Exceptional Wonder Hebbe Falls is maybe of the best customary wonder you should visit while visiting Chikmagalur. It is around 10 kilometers from Kemmangundi. You ought to one or the other walk or enlist a vehicle to take you there on the grounds that Hebbe Falls is arranged inside a coffee farm. Here, the water tumbles from a degree of 551 feet. This fall, which is isolated into two stages, Dodda Hebe and Chikka Hebbe, is famous for its greatness and quietness. This is the best region assuming you truly want to restore yourself or contribute quality energy with your friends and family. Kemmangundi Zenith: Have a go at climbing The Kemmangundi Apex venture is maybe the best thing to do in Chikmagalur in light of the fact that it leaves you with well-established memories. Because of various components, including steep excursions and restricted ways, this excursion is considered to be honorably problematic. Various beginner voyagers have, in any case, beat their fear and submitted to Kemmangundi Zenith. You will pass overflows, coffee estates, woody forests, and various sights as you begin ascending to the zenith. Kemmangundi Zenith finally makes you feel resuscitated by reducing both your body and soul. For a staycation with friends and family best recommendations for Chikmagalur resort: Set on top of Mullayangiri Slants in Chikmagalur, Trivik Lodgings and Resorts is wrapped by enamoring normal scenes and coffee houses. Giving a redesigned luxury experience, the hotel features rich rooms with jazzy and famous expressive formats. Each room offers undisturbed points of view on the mountains. For diversion, guests can loosen up by the boundless pool, partake in a ruining spa treatment, and take agreeable walks around the houses. Various comforts integrate a games room, rec focus, multi-food restaurant, bar, and barbecue workplaces. Trivik is a Top luxury stay at Chikmagalur inns. Might you want to place in several days enveloped by Mother earth? Visit The Sprout Resort in Chikmagalur point of truth. The visitors’ rich natural elements give a wonderful viewpoint on the extraordinary mountains from their enormous, wooden-dazed offices, which similarly feature pleasant beds. Each room has all of the state of the art solaces, and the property furthermore has different comforts like an indoor pool, a kids’ club, a nursery, a wilderness exercise center, and a restaurant on the spot, and that is only the start. Visitors can choose to relax in the peacefulness of the area as well as partake in different empowering works out. |
2023.03.24 14:22 justatadnerdy I think my partner has add
So I finally got my diagnosis and started medication for adhd. I’m 34 years old and I’m so sure my partner (37yo) has it as well (or rather add). It’s funny how I find it hard to deal with his traits while I used to or still do show the same. Since I’m also autistic I struggle with myself all the time as it is and I hate that some habits bother me so much. I love him and I’m not good at keeping the house clean but he’s even worse. I talked to him about it and it bothers him as well, always has. He did agree to see a doctor and got an appointment in may and I hope this’ll help us some.
Do you have tips for me to get over myself and help him? I don’t have much energy to spare as I have much to do with my own adhd and autism but I really want to help him and be more supportive. I hate that it’s so hard for me to give the support I need myself :(
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Do you have tips for me to get over myself and help him? I don’t have much energy to spare as I have much to do with my own adhd and autism but I really want to help him and be more supportive. I hate that it’s so hard for me to give the support I need myself :(
2023.03.24 14:22 Few_Watercress1131 Best Wi-Fi Router 2022?
Figuring out what the best router for your needs can be complicated. We've tested the top Wi-Fi router brands so you can find the right one for your needs.
Take a look at this list: https://quizience.com/best-wi-fi-routers-for-2022/
TP-Link Archer AX21
Best budget router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX1800
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Available for $100 (or less if you catch a sale), the TP-Link Archer AX21 is an entry-level, dual-band Wi-Fi 6 router that supports top speeds of up to 1,201Mbps (1.2Gbps) on its 5GHz band. It's nothing fancy, but it offered near flawless performance for small- to medium-size homes in our tests, and it's a cinch to setup and use thanks to TP-Link's Tether app.
Best of all, when tested against other, similar routers from names like Asus and Netgear, the AX21 held its own with faster download speeds, better range, and low latency, too. Add in a functional bandsteering mode that automatically steers you between the 2.4 and 5GHz bands within a single network, plus guest network controls and even a quality of service engine for prioritizing traffic to the most important devices on your network, and you're looking at a decent home networking upgrade that's as simple and affordable as it gets. It isn't powerful enough to max out speeds on a gigabit network, but it can still hit consistent close-range speeds near 700Mbps or so, which is more than enough for most households. Read our TP-Link Archer AX21 review.
Linksys Hydra Pro 6 (MR5500)
Best midrange router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5400
Range
Up to 2,700 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
If you've already got a budget router running your network and you're ready to upgrade to something more powerful, the Linksys Hydra Pro 6 belongs high on your list. With a dual-band, AX5400 build, full support for Wi-Fi 6, and 160MHz channel support for moving data more efficiently, it was an excellent performer in my speed tests, even managing to outperform flashier picks like the also great Asus RT-AX86U.
The Hydra Pro 6 is a touch pricey as dual-band routers go, but the steady, consistent performance makes it a standout. Try and catch it on sale if you can, but if you just want a reliable, no-frills router that can keep up with gigabit speeds, look no further. Read our Linksys Hydra Pro 6 review.
TP-Link Deco W7200
Best mesh router overall
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX3600
Range
Up to 5,500 sq. ft. (two devices)
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Tri-Band (2.4 and two 5GHz)
For the best performance from your mesh router, you'll want to prioritize getting one with support for Wi-Fi 6, plus a tri-band design that includes three separate bands of traffic: the usual 2.4 and 5GHz bands, plus an additional 5GHz band that the system can use as a dedicated wireless backhaul for transmissions between the router and its satellites. Most mesh routers like that cost at least $300 or even $400, but the TP-Link Deco W7200 gets you there for less than $250.
That's the best deal I've seen for a tri-band mesh router with support for Wi-Fi 6 -- and sure enough, it's an excellent performer, as well. In fact, the only system that managed to outperform it outright in my at-home speed tests is the AX6000 version of Netgear Orbi, which costs more than three times as much (keep reading for more on that one). On top of that, TP-Link's setup process is about as easy as it gets, with satellite extenders that automatically join the mesh as soon as you plug them in. Read our TP-Link Deco W7200 review.
Asus RT-AX86U
Best gaming router
Wi-Fi standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5700
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Gaming routers promise high performance and low latency for die-hard gamers, and it isn't uncommon to find them selling for $300 or even $400. At about $270 or less, the Asus RT-AX86U dual-band router isn't inexpensive either, but it's a strong value relative to routers like those -- and the performance it delivers as a gaming router is flat-out great.
Most noteworthy is the router's latency management. In fact, it leads all of the routers I've ever tested, gaming or otherwise, with the lowest average latency across all of my tests, which online gamers will definitely appreciate. Something else you'll appreciate: An excellent mix of app-based controls and features, including a mobile boost mode, that lets you prioritize gaming traffic to your phone at the touch of a button.
Gaming features aside, the RT-AX86U offers full support for Wi-Fi 6, with strong, stable speeds and good range. If you need additional range, you can add other Asus "AIMesh" devices to your home network to make it the centerpiece of a mesh.
That checks off all of the boxes that most people want from a good gaming router, and it gets you there at a price that isn't too painful for us to recommend. Even if you aren't a gamer, this is still one of the best Wi-Fi 6 routers you can buy right now. Read our list of the best gaming routers.
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Take a look at this list: https://quizience.com/best-wi-fi-routers-for-2022/
TP-Link Archer AX21
Best budget router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX1800
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Available for $100 (or less if you catch a sale), the TP-Link Archer AX21 is an entry-level, dual-band Wi-Fi 6 router that supports top speeds of up to 1,201Mbps (1.2Gbps) on its 5GHz band. It's nothing fancy, but it offered near flawless performance for small- to medium-size homes in our tests, and it's a cinch to setup and use thanks to TP-Link's Tether app.
Best of all, when tested against other, similar routers from names like Asus and Netgear, the AX21 held its own with faster download speeds, better range, and low latency, too. Add in a functional bandsteering mode that automatically steers you between the 2.4 and 5GHz bands within a single network, plus guest network controls and even a quality of service engine for prioritizing traffic to the most important devices on your network, and you're looking at a decent home networking upgrade that's as simple and affordable as it gets. It isn't powerful enough to max out speeds on a gigabit network, but it can still hit consistent close-range speeds near 700Mbps or so, which is more than enough for most households. Read our TP-Link Archer AX21 review.
Linksys Hydra Pro 6 (MR5500)
Best midrange router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5400
Range
Up to 2,700 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
If you've already got a budget router running your network and you're ready to upgrade to something more powerful, the Linksys Hydra Pro 6 belongs high on your list. With a dual-band, AX5400 build, full support for Wi-Fi 6, and 160MHz channel support for moving data more efficiently, it was an excellent performer in my speed tests, even managing to outperform flashier picks like the also great Asus RT-AX86U.
The Hydra Pro 6 is a touch pricey as dual-band routers go, but the steady, consistent performance makes it a standout. Try and catch it on sale if you can, but if you just want a reliable, no-frills router that can keep up with gigabit speeds, look no further. Read our Linksys Hydra Pro 6 review.
TP-Link Deco W7200
Best mesh router overall
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX3600
Range
Up to 5,500 sq. ft. (two devices)
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Tri-Band (2.4 and two 5GHz)
For the best performance from your mesh router, you'll want to prioritize getting one with support for Wi-Fi 6, plus a tri-band design that includes three separate bands of traffic: the usual 2.4 and 5GHz bands, plus an additional 5GHz band that the system can use as a dedicated wireless backhaul for transmissions between the router and its satellites. Most mesh routers like that cost at least $300 or even $400, but the TP-Link Deco W7200 gets you there for less than $250.
That's the best deal I've seen for a tri-band mesh router with support for Wi-Fi 6 -- and sure enough, it's an excellent performer, as well. In fact, the only system that managed to outperform it outright in my at-home speed tests is the AX6000 version of Netgear Orbi, which costs more than three times as much (keep reading for more on that one). On top of that, TP-Link's setup process is about as easy as it gets, with satellite extenders that automatically join the mesh as soon as you plug them in. Read our TP-Link Deco W7200 review.
Asus RT-AX86U
Best gaming router
Wi-Fi standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5700
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Gaming routers promise high performance and low latency for die-hard gamers, and it isn't uncommon to find them selling for $300 or even $400. At about $270 or less, the Asus RT-AX86U dual-band router isn't inexpensive either, but it's a strong value relative to routers like those -- and the performance it delivers as a gaming router is flat-out great.
Most noteworthy is the router's latency management. In fact, it leads all of the routers I've ever tested, gaming or otherwise, with the lowest average latency across all of my tests, which online gamers will definitely appreciate. Something else you'll appreciate: An excellent mix of app-based controls and features, including a mobile boost mode, that lets you prioritize gaming traffic to your phone at the touch of a button.
Gaming features aside, the RT-AX86U offers full support for Wi-Fi 6, with strong, stable speeds and good range. If you need additional range, you can add other Asus "AIMesh" devices to your home network to make it the centerpiece of a mesh.
That checks off all of the boxes that most people want from a good gaming router, and it gets you there at a price that isn't too painful for us to recommend. Even if you aren't a gamer, this is still one of the best Wi-Fi 6 routers you can buy right now. Read our list of the best gaming routers.
2023.03.24 14:22 Kindly_Fig_9743 How do I live with the truth that I became the person I am today?
The person I chose to accept and love for 8 years manipulated my mental health, my sex life, my criminal record, my finances and my reputation. I’m not sure where to even start… I feel negative and abused in all aspects of life. I’ve been broken down past my core and feel like it’s just not worth the battle… to be honest I’m not sure if our kid is mine, not sure where her moneys coming from, nothing is making sense. All I want to do is raise my daughter. Now I’m homeless, sleeping in my car, impulsive, distant from friends and family and being blamed for leaving the house when I’m scared of her. I was never like this- I’ve been used and then abused and then picked up and then dropped so many I ’m a great dad but she uses her as a pawn to attack me when I’m being a father, she gets jealous and then somehow I’m being screamed at for giving her children’s Tylenol when shes sick and I have to leave because she’s calling the police. Then I’m ignored for weeks, somehow we rekindle and boom here I am again writing this from a hotel parking lot- I keep searching for the answer to HOW I got here…. The chase of the truth has completely destroyed my mind. I found out the other day she was charged with hurting a vulnerable adult but got it expunged half way though our relationship. I feel violated- she pulled me out of treatment because my daughter needed me there so she could work.. but she still gets EBT with a 400k mortgage in her name. “On call” nurse… What do I do next? I have nothing but the love of my daughter to keep going and she makes it impossible. So many more problems it’s too much
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2023.03.24 14:22 throwawayy575575 Am I entitled to split my house 50/50 with my ex?
Hi, so me and my fiancée have split up and we’re selling our house and paying off the mortgage. We bought the house 2 years ago, we have both payed similar amounts towards the mortgage and bills, however she put in more towards the deposit (I put 16,000 she put 34,000). So my question is when we sell am I entitled to 50 percent of everything or would she be entitled to her deposit money back? For context, I’m not a petty person I’d never want to take what’s not mine but I’ve been suffering with a health condition this past year and found at that she’s been cheating on me for quite some time. Obviously going to get solicitors involved but just wanted to pop the question here and ask :) thank you all very much
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2023.03.24 14:22 Planet-Minecraft Fremantle
 | FremantleMedia (doing business as Fremantle) is a British-based media conglomerate company founded on August 20, 2001, as a merger of Pearson Television and CLT-UFA; the companies merged to become "RTL Group" and by renaming the production arm to FremantleMedia, who currently owns the All American, Mark Goodson, and Reg Grundy libraries, among other formats. In 2003, FremantleMedia acquired Australian production company Crackerjack Productions, who merged with Grundy Television to form "FremantleMedia Australia". On September 7, 2018, the company changed its onscreen name to simply "Fremantle," though FremantleMedia remains its legal name. Today, Fremantle is a division of the RTL Group, and is 90% owned by German media conglomerate, Bertelsmann SE & Co. KGaA, which is 80.9% owned by the Bertelsmann Foundation and 19.1% owned by the Mohn Family. submitted by Planet-Minecraft to aviddatabase [link] [comments] FremantleMedia(February 13, 2002-February 1, 2019; October 29, 2020)Early variantSD variant North American HD variant squeezed to SD SD variant, black background FremantleMedia Enterprises SD variant, black background FremantleMedia Enterprises SD variant North American SD variant Australian SD variant HD variant HD variant, black background North American HD variant Polish HD variant International HD variant with distrubution FremantleMedia Enterprises HD variant with distrubution Logo: On a royal blue background, white paint (which looks more like milk or whipped cream) "bubbles" out in the center, then pulls back and to the right as the paint orbits around to form a stylized atom design. The text "FREMANTLEMEDIA", in Futura font with different font weights, blurs in to the left of the atom. Afterwards, four white paint drops appear around the atom. Variants:
Music/Sounds: First, we hear a low guitar strum, segueing into a synthesized percussion-driven instrumental. It then culminates with a three-strum guitar jingle, the last note of which echoes. This was composed by Score Productions, which did music for The Price is Right, Family Feud and the 1986 Lorimar-Telepictures logo. Music/Sounds Variants:
Fremantle(September 10, 2018-)https://preview.redd.it/bq3jg6a7uopa1.png?width=454&format=png&auto=webp&s=9482d8608c44ca488e645270d85c79b709e36d20https://preview.redd.it/xur7wy08uopa1.png?width=340&format=png&auto=webp&s=63fa5757dbdfdc85ddfa43dc274716683d0fd528 Logo: On a black background, two shots fade in and out depicting the letters "Fr" and "e" in white being written out in cursive. A third shot shows a cursive white "m" being drawn, which zooms out to reveal the words "Fremantle" being drawn out in cursive handwriting. The stem of the "t" is the last of the lettering to be drawn after the zoom out. Variants:
Music/Sounds: A dramatic three-note orchestral string theme followed by a chorus stinger when the stem of the "t" is drawn. This was composed by Reuben Shaljean. Music/Sounds Variants:
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2023.03.24 14:22 Glass-Bobcat9926 Best Wi-Fi Router 2023
Figuring out what the best router for your needs can be complicated. We've tested the top Wi-Fi router brands so you can find the right one for your needs.
Take a look at this list: https://quizience.com/best-wi-fi-routers-for-2022/
TP-Link Archer AX21
Best budget router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX1800
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Available for $100 (or less if you catch a sale), the TP-Link Archer AX21 is an entry-level, dual-band Wi-Fi 6 router that supports top speeds of up to 1,201Mbps (1.2Gbps) on its 5GHz band. It's nothing fancy, but it offered near flawless performance for small- to medium-size homes in our tests, and it's a cinch to setup and use thanks to TP-Link's Tether app.
Best of all, when tested against other, similar routers from names like Asus and Netgear, the AX21 held its own with faster download speeds, better range, and low latency, too. Add in a functional bandsteering mode that automatically steers you between the 2.4 and 5GHz bands within a single network, plus guest network controls and even a quality of service engine for prioritizing traffic to the most important devices on your network, and you're looking at a decent home networking upgrade that's as simple and affordable as it gets. It isn't powerful enough to max out speeds on a gigabit network, but it can still hit consistent close-range speeds near 700Mbps or so, which is more than enough for most households. Read our TP-Link Archer AX21 review.
Linksys Hydra Pro 6 (MR5500)
Best midrange router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5400
Range
Up to 2,700 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
If you've already got a budget router running your network and you're ready to upgrade to something more powerful, the Linksys Hydra Pro 6 belongs high on your list. With a dual-band, AX5400 build, full support for Wi-Fi 6, and 160MHz channel support for moving data more efficiently, it was an excellent performer in my speed tests, even managing to outperform flashier picks like the also great Asus RT-AX86U.
The Hydra Pro 6 is a touch pricey as dual-band routers go, but the steady, consistent performance makes it a standout. Try and catch it on sale if you can, but if you just want a reliable, no-frills router that can keep up with gigabit speeds, look no further. Read our Linksys Hydra Pro 6 review.
TP-Link Deco W7200
Best mesh router overall
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX3600
Range
Up to 5,500 sq. ft. (two devices)
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Tri-Band (2.4 and two 5GHz)
For the best performance from your mesh router, you'll want to prioritize getting one with support for Wi-Fi 6, plus a tri-band design that includes three separate bands of traffic: the usual 2.4 and 5GHz bands, plus an additional 5GHz band that the system can use as a dedicated wireless backhaul for transmissions between the router and its satellites. Most mesh routers like that cost at least $300 or even $400, but the TP-Link Deco W7200 gets you there for less than $250.
That's the best deal I've seen for a tri-band mesh router with support for Wi-Fi 6 -- and sure enough, it's an excellent performer, as well. In fact, the only system that managed to outperform it outright in my at-home speed tests is the AX6000 version of Netgear Orbi, which costs more than three times as much (keep reading for more on that one). On top of that, TP-Link's setup process is about as easy as it gets, with satellite extenders that automatically join the mesh as soon as you plug them in. Read our TP-Link Deco W7200 review.
Asus RT-AX86U
Best gaming router
Wi-Fi standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5700
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Gaming routers promise high performance and low latency for die-hard gamers, and it isn't uncommon to find them selling for $300 or even $400. At about $270 or less, the Asus RT-AX86U dual-band router isn't inexpensive either, but it's a strong value relative to routers like those -- and the performance it delivers as a gaming router is flat-out great.
Most noteworthy is the router's latency management. In fact, it leads all of the routers I've ever tested, gaming or otherwise, with the lowest average latency across all of my tests, which online gamers will definitely appreciate. Something else you'll appreciate: An excellent mix of app-based controls and features, including a mobile boost mode, that lets you prioritize gaming traffic to your phone at the touch of a button.
Gaming features aside, the RT-AX86U offers full support for Wi-Fi 6, with strong, stable speeds and good range. If you need additional range, you can add other Asus "AIMesh" devices to your home network to make it the centerpiece of a mesh.
That checks off all of the boxes that most people want from a good gaming router, and it gets you there at a price that isn't too painful for us to recommend. Even if you aren't a gamer, this is still one of the best Wi-Fi 6 routers you can buy right now. Read our list of the best gaming routers.
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Take a look at this list: https://quizience.com/best-wi-fi-routers-for-2022/
TP-Link Archer AX21
Best budget router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX1800
Range
Up to 2,500 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
Available for $100 (or less if you catch a sale), the TP-Link Archer AX21 is an entry-level, dual-band Wi-Fi 6 router that supports top speeds of up to 1,201Mbps (1.2Gbps) on its 5GHz band. It's nothing fancy, but it offered near flawless performance for small- to medium-size homes in our tests, and it's a cinch to setup and use thanks to TP-Link's Tether app.
Best of all, when tested against other, similar routers from names like Asus and Netgear, the AX21 held its own with faster download speeds, better range, and low latency, too. Add in a functional bandsteering mode that automatically steers you between the 2.4 and 5GHz bands within a single network, plus guest network controls and even a quality of service engine for prioritizing traffic to the most important devices on your network, and you're looking at a decent home networking upgrade that's as simple and affordable as it gets. It isn't powerful enough to max out speeds on a gigabit network, but it can still hit consistent close-range speeds near 700Mbps or so, which is more than enough for most households. Read our TP-Link Archer AX21 review.
Linksys Hydra Pro 6 (MR5500)
Best midrange router
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX5400
Range
Up to 2,700 sq. ft.
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Dual-Band (2.4 and 5GHz)
If you've already got a budget router running your network and you're ready to upgrade to something more powerful, the Linksys Hydra Pro 6 belongs high on your list. With a dual-band, AX5400 build, full support for Wi-Fi 6, and 160MHz channel support for moving data more efficiently, it was an excellent performer in my speed tests, even managing to outperform flashier picks like the also great Asus RT-AX86U.
The Hydra Pro 6 is a touch pricey as dual-band routers go, but the steady, consistent performance makes it a standout. Try and catch it on sale if you can, but if you just want a reliable, no-frills router that can keep up with gigabit speeds, look no further. Read our Linksys Hydra Pro 6 review.
TP-Link Deco W7200
Best mesh router overall
Wi-Fi Standard
Wi-Fi 6
Speed Rating
AX3600
Range
Up to 5,500 sq. ft. (two devices)
Wireless Networking Security
WPA2, WPA3
Bands
Tri-Band (2.4 and two 5GHz)
For the best performance from your mesh router, you'll want to prioritize getting one with support for Wi-Fi 6, plus a tri-band design that includes three separate bands of traffic: the usual 2.4 and 5GHz bands, plus an additional 5GHz band that the system can use as a dedicated wireless backhaul for transmissions between the router and its satellites. Most mesh routers like that cost at least $300 or even $400, but the TP-Link Deco W7200 gets you there for less than $250.
That's the best deal I've seen for a tri-band mesh router with support for Wi-Fi 6 -- and sure enough, it's an excellent performer, as well. In fact, the only system that managed to outperform it outright in my at-home speed tests is the AX6000 version of Netgear Orbi, which costs more than three times as much (keep reading for more on that one). On top of that, TP-Link's setup process is about as easy as it gets, with satellite extenders that automatically join the mesh as soon as you plug them in. Read our TP-Link Deco W7200 review.
Asus RT-AX86U
Best gaming router
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2023.03.24 14:21 pheregas Shower water mixer adjustment?
Good day.
I have a century home with up to date plumbing. It is a larger home and the distance from the hot water tank to the second floor shower is about as far away as possible and still be inside the house.
We’ve always had the issue (pre and post bath renovation) that the shower just doesn’t get that warm, even with the dial turned all the way to hot.
I know the mixer has some safety setting that mixes in a small amount of cold even when hot is set to max.
I’ve insulated all the copper as far as I could from the hot water tank to where the copper goes up through the walls. I used that foam stuff from a big box store to wrap it.
I also can’t turn up the water heater any more because it’s already borderline too hot for the first floor sinks that are much closer to the tank.
Should I alter the mixer? Or slightly close the quarter turn ball valve on the cold shutoff to slow the cold flow?
Sorry if this is a dumb question. Google searches said I should be able to adjust the max temp via the mixer, but I also don’t want to violate any safety regulations. Just tired of lukewarm showers.
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I have a century home with up to date plumbing. It is a larger home and the distance from the hot water tank to the second floor shower is about as far away as possible and still be inside the house.
We’ve always had the issue (pre and post bath renovation) that the shower just doesn’t get that warm, even with the dial turned all the way to hot.
I know the mixer has some safety setting that mixes in a small amount of cold even when hot is set to max.
I’ve insulated all the copper as far as I could from the hot water tank to where the copper goes up through the walls. I used that foam stuff from a big box store to wrap it.
I also can’t turn up the water heater any more because it’s already borderline too hot for the first floor sinks that are much closer to the tank.
Should I alter the mixer? Or slightly close the quarter turn ball valve on the cold shutoff to slow the cold flow?
Sorry if this is a dumb question. Google searches said I should be able to adjust the max temp via the mixer, but I also don’t want to violate any safety regulations. Just tired of lukewarm showers.
2023.03.24 14:21 lovelylayout Jodi is an almond mom (and so much more)
TW: eating disorders just in case, also spoilered for mentions of Kent and Ginger Island
"What do I do for fun? Hmm... That's a good question. I like sleeping."
Home economics Family and Consumer Sciences is a legitimate field of study, and a complex one. Keeping house has so many moving parts, and the job is never done. Cleaning, cooking, budgeting, child care, and time management all have to be planned and carried out, and it's really difficult to get it all right all the time.
Jodi is under a ton of pressure, especially for the year she's alone, to raise her children right, spend the family's money right, keep the house right, and somehow also make time for herself. But she doesn't make a lot of time for herself, because she's overwhelmed.
What Jodi doesn't know (and what a lot of people who struggle IRL with the need to "do everything right" don't realize) is that feeling overwhelmed when faced with an overwhelming situation is a completely normal reaction. The person who feels snowed under by the demands of their life also usually experiences shame at not being able to achieve whatever unrealistic goal they've set.
Neither the IRL person nor Jodi realizes that the goals are unrealistic, because nobody ever comes out and says "hey, one person actually cannot do all this? maybe let's stop beating ourselves up for not being able to Do It All."
That's what "desperate" refers to in the phrase "desperate housewife." Desperation to achieve every task, to not let anything slip through the cracks, to not let anyone down who depends on you, to show up, to keep going and going day in and day out without ever really getting a break.
"Housework is frustrating because you're never finished. The day after I sweep the floor, it's dirty again."
"The food at JojaMart might not be the healthiest for my family, but with such low prices you'd be crazy to shop anywhere else!"
"I'm taking a break from house chores today. I'm taking the day off. If I don't spend any time outside, I'll go crazy!"
"If I was rich the first thing I'd do would be to hire a maid and a chef. My goodness, that would be nice!"
Girl needs a vacation (I'm always so happy to see her on Ginger Island once the resort is unlocked).
"I had a dream that I had complete freedom, no obligation to anyone but myself... Then I woke up and realized I had a full day of house chores ahead of me..."
"We kind of rushed into our marriage, with Kent being a soldier and all... I hardly got a taste of youth and freedom, and now it's too late to ever go back. Just don't make the same mistake."
“\sigh*... Sometimes I dream about life on my own... without a family to look after. Is that horrible? Don't tell anyone.”*
Pining for lost youth is not an uncommon trope within the archetype of the desperate housewife, but it doesn't show up in every character. Clearly it does show up in Jodi, and her wishing for a different life is another thing she feels shame about ("Is that horrible? Don't tell anyone").
One thing that breaks my heart about Jodi is that she seems unable to just be herself. Her entire life is set up with a focus on her being of benefit to other people, and she feels like she's lost some of herself along the way.
She specifically mentions "freedom" so many times. Longing to feel freedom is something she probably can't talk to Kent about, since he was in an actual prison camp and the two situations are not at all on the same level.
Is Jodi really a full-blown almond mom? No, of course not.
She's trying her best to feed her family in a way that maintains their health-- Vincent wouldn't be excited about the lentils or boiled beets even if they were a once-in-a-blue-moon dinner, he's a kid and he just doesn't like lentils. I don't think Sam or Vincent have or are going to develop issues with food or weight. I don't think Jodi has an eating disorder-- what I do see in her dialogue, likes, and dislikes is someone who's affected by diet culture.
Jodi's Loved Items list only includes one item that is conventionally "healthy" and that's vegetable medley. Her other Loved food items are chocolate cake, crispy bass, eggplant parmesan, fried eel, pancakes, and rhubarb pie. Her unique Liked Items are eggs, fruit, and milk, with a couple exceptions in each category.
So she likes items that are generally regarded as healthy but loves items that are high in fat. As someone who's been in dieting spaces on the internet for two decades, that's a dieter if I've ever seen one.
At the movies her favorite concession is chocolate popcorn and her liked concessions include cappucino mousse cake, fries, ice cream sandwich, nachos, personal pizza, popcorn, and star cookie, again including fewer conventionally healthy items like the salmon burger and jasmine tea. Going to the movies is a "special occasion" where she's more likely to eat something outside the diet.
I also think it's funny that Jodi doesn't like mushrooms. Mushrooms tend to be polarizing in diet spaces, they're very low-calorie but a lot of people just don't like them enough to make them worth eating no matter how low-cal they are.
Sam has a dialogue about her cooking fish casserole, plus her Fish Casserole 4-heart event. Fish casserole sounds like the kind of do-those-ingredients-really-go-together diet concoction you see get popular now and then.
"Exercise is important for staying healthy. I always make sure to set aside some time for it. As a parent, I don't have much time to devote to myself. So I try and make every minute count."
The good news is that this and the end of the line "If I don't spend any time outside, I'll go crazy! Plus I don't want my legs to turn soft" are the only dialogues she has regarding looks/fitness. I've joked before about her shopping at Joja to get her steps in, but I don't really think that's the case. I think Jodi's relationship with exercise is far more typical than disordered.
She says she makes time for it because she knows it's important, but she doesn't seem to enjoy it. If Jodi posted on an IRL diet or fitness forum they'd advise her to ditch the aerobics class and find something she actually enjoys. Jodi does say she likes to be outside. She might enjoy hiking or something, but as you know if you've read this far, she doesn't have the time.
This concludes the longest post I've ever written about a video game, and if you read the whole thing I want to thank you for your time and wish you the highest possible luck day.
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TLDR: Jodi is overwhelmed by her life and also affected by diet culture.
I've gotten lots of compliments on my flair and I wanted to take a minute to explain how I think about Jodi's character more in-depth. I love Jodi, I feel for her, and I think about her a lot. Almond-specific analysis will be near the end of this post."What do I do for fun? Hmm... That's a good question. I like sleeping."
Jodi is THE desperate housewife.
Domestic labor is labor.Jodi is under a ton of pressure, especially for the year she's alone, to raise her children right, spend the family's money right, keep the house right, and somehow also make time for herself. But she doesn't make a lot of time for herself, because she's overwhelmed.
What Jodi doesn't know (and what a lot of people who struggle IRL with the need to "do everything right" don't realize) is that feeling overwhelmed when faced with an overwhelming situation is a completely normal reaction. The person who feels snowed under by the demands of their life also usually experiences shame at not being able to achieve whatever unrealistic goal they've set.
Neither the IRL person nor Jodi realizes that the goals are unrealistic, because nobody ever comes out and says "hey, one person actually cannot do all this? maybe let's stop beating ourselves up for not being able to Do It All."
That's what "desperate" refers to in the phrase "desperate housewife." Desperation to achieve every task, to not let anything slip through the cracks, to not let anyone down who depends on you, to show up, to keep going and going day in and day out without ever really getting a break.
"Housework is frustrating because you're never finished. The day after I sweep the floor, it's dirty again."
"The food at JojaMart might not be the healthiest for my family, but with such low prices you'd be crazy to shop anywhere else!"
"I'm taking a break from house chores today. I'm taking the day off. If I don't spend any time outside, I'll go crazy!"
"If I was rich the first thing I'd do would be to hire a maid and a chef. My goodness, that would be nice!"
Girl needs a vacation (I'm always so happy to see her on Ginger Island once the resort is unlocked).
On Jodi's "lost youth"
"It's nice to have a family... but I'd be lying if I said I never long for the freedom of youth...""I had a dream that I had complete freedom, no obligation to anyone but myself... Then I woke up and realized I had a full day of house chores ahead of me..."
"We kind of rushed into our marriage, with Kent being a soldier and all... I hardly got a taste of youth and freedom, and now it's too late to ever go back. Just don't make the same mistake."
“\sigh*... Sometimes I dream about life on my own... without a family to look after. Is that horrible? Don't tell anyone.”*
Pining for lost youth is not an uncommon trope within the archetype of the desperate housewife, but it doesn't show up in every character. Clearly it does show up in Jodi, and her wishing for a different life is another thing she feels shame about ("Is that horrible? Don't tell anyone").
One thing that breaks my heart about Jodi is that she seems unable to just be herself. Her entire life is set up with a focus on her being of benefit to other people, and she feels like she's lost some of herself along the way.
She specifically mentions "freedom" so many times. Longing to feel freedom is something she probably can't talk to Kent about, since he was in an actual prison camp and the two situations are not at all on the same level.
Almond Analysis
What is an almond mom? An almond mom is one who is obsessed with looks and maintaining or losing weight to the point that her own eating-disordered behavior rubs off on her children. (I've heard steak dad or protein dad used to refer to the same phenomenon in fathers.) IRL this can look like: negative body talk about oneself or the child; placing moral value on certain foods; forcing the entire family onto the same diet when differing needs are present; and lots of other things.Is Jodi really a full-blown almond mom? No, of course not.
She's trying her best to feed her family in a way that maintains their health-- Vincent wouldn't be excited about the lentils or boiled beets even if they were a once-in-a-blue-moon dinner, he's a kid and he just doesn't like lentils. I don't think Sam or Vincent have or are going to develop issues with food or weight. I don't think Jodi has an eating disorder-- what I do see in her dialogue, likes, and dislikes is someone who's affected by diet culture.
Jodi's Loved Items list only includes one item that is conventionally "healthy" and that's vegetable medley. Her other Loved food items are chocolate cake, crispy bass, eggplant parmesan, fried eel, pancakes, and rhubarb pie. Her unique Liked Items are eggs, fruit, and milk, with a couple exceptions in each category.
So she likes items that are generally regarded as healthy but loves items that are high in fat. As someone who's been in dieting spaces on the internet for two decades, that's a dieter if I've ever seen one.
At the movies her favorite concession is chocolate popcorn and her liked concessions include cappucino mousse cake, fries, ice cream sandwich, nachos, personal pizza, popcorn, and star cookie, again including fewer conventionally healthy items like the salmon burger and jasmine tea. Going to the movies is a "special occasion" where she's more likely to eat something outside the diet.
I also think it's funny that Jodi doesn't like mushrooms. Mushrooms tend to be polarizing in diet spaces, they're very low-calorie but a lot of people just don't like them enough to make them worth eating no matter how low-cal they are.
Sam has a dialogue about her cooking fish casserole, plus her Fish Casserole 4-heart event. Fish casserole sounds like the kind of do-those-ingredients-really-go-together diet concoction you see get popular now and then.
"Exercise is important for staying healthy. I always make sure to set aside some time for it. As a parent, I don't have much time to devote to myself. So I try and make every minute count."
The good news is that this and the end of the line "If I don't spend any time outside, I'll go crazy! Plus I don't want my legs to turn soft" are the only dialogues she has regarding looks/fitness. I've joked before about her shopping at Joja to get her steps in, but I don't really think that's the case. I think Jodi's relationship with exercise is far more typical than disordered.
She says she makes time for it because she knows it's important, but she doesn't seem to enjoy it. If Jodi posted on an IRL diet or fitness forum they'd advise her to ditch the aerobics class and find something she actually enjoys. Jodi does say she likes to be outside. She might enjoy hiking or something, but as you know if you've read this far, she doesn't have the time.
This concludes the longest post I've ever written about a video game, and if you read the whole thing I want to thank you for your time and wish you the highest possible luck day.
2023.03.24 14:21 fprintf Oven self-cleaning stunk up the house, need ways to reduce the burnt plastic smell
For the first time in 8 years I decided to run the self-cleaning cycle on our GE Profile oven. We don't do a lot of messy splattery cooking and in retrospect it wasn't that dirty and I should have just wiped it out with a little soap and water.
During the cycle we were practically gassed out of the house, our eyes were all watery and the smell was just awful. It was 35 deg F outside and we still opened a bunch of windows to try and air it out. 3 days later and it still smells like burnt plastic (there was no plastic on or near the oven, and I have pulled it out to make sure there wasn't anything underneath or even the plastic electric cable).
So here we are 3 days later and it still smells. It is going to be 50deg F today and so the plan is to open all the windows. I am just shocked at how much this smell is lingering, like if I clean the bathrooms with bleach it is only usually a few hours until the smell is gone. Same with the usual cooking odors.
Any thoughts on how else to non-invasively get rid of the smell? I really can't afford to do anything major like repainting the interior or steam cleaning all the furniture. I'm kind of hoping there is something relatively easy I can do, or just the assurance that it'll go away with some time and airing it out.
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During the cycle we were practically gassed out of the house, our eyes were all watery and the smell was just awful. It was 35 deg F outside and we still opened a bunch of windows to try and air it out. 3 days later and it still smells like burnt plastic (there was no plastic on or near the oven, and I have pulled it out to make sure there wasn't anything underneath or even the plastic electric cable).
So here we are 3 days later and it still smells. It is going to be 50deg F today and so the plan is to open all the windows. I am just shocked at how much this smell is lingering, like if I clean the bathrooms with bleach it is only usually a few hours until the smell is gone. Same with the usual cooking odors.
Any thoughts on how else to non-invasively get rid of the smell? I really can't afford to do anything major like repainting the interior or steam cleaning all the furniture. I'm kind of hoping there is something relatively easy I can do, or just the assurance that it'll go away with some time and airing it out.
2023.03.24 14:20 calrinet Spleen
I'm making this post entitled spleen because there aren't many posts about this on this sub.
A few weeks to a month ago one of my greyhounds died. It was a Sunday morning when we noticed she was being a little weird, but they're always weird so it could've been anything.
A few hours later she could barely stand. We called our cousin who is our vet that sees a lot of greyhounds. He told us to look her over for a tick and give her a tick bath. At this point I had a feeling she wasn't going to make it through the night. I obviously didn't KNOW, but I just had this feeling.
So we went to the store and bought the tick shampoo he recommended and gave her a bath. It was rough. She was using a LOT of effort to barely stand up but the vet told us it could be tick paralysis so that made sense, all the more important to get her the tick bath.
After her bath we dried her off, wrapped her in a blanket and laid her on her favorite spot on the sofa next to me.
When it was time for us to go to bed, I carried her across the house to our bedroom and laid her on her bed next to me. She started crying/screaming. It was horrible. I didn't know if I should take her to an emergency vet, I didn't know if they could do anything to help her, if I'd make it there. Around 9pm I called my vet again and asked "should I take her to an emergency vet?". He could hear her crying on the phone. He said I could but it might not help, I could take her to him tomorrow morning first thing as well and he could see what he could do.
About an hour later she died. It was horrible. Every second of it. I just laid next to her telling her she was a good girl everything was going to be okay and that I loved her and petting her. What else could I do? At that point I pretty much knew she was going to die. I didn't know if I had missed my chance at the emergency vet. Maybe it was my fault she was in so much pain. In case it isn't obvious I still blame myself.
The next morning we took her to our vet. He said he'd see why she died and have her cremated for us.
A week later we go back out to collect her ashes and talk to him. She had an enlarged spleen that had bled out. He said he sees greyhounds that age (she was 7) all the time with spleen problems that lead to their death, but it never happens this quickly. They never go from normal to dead in a matter of 24 hours. He told me there was nothing I could've done, even an emergency vet couldn't have helped when I called him at 9pm.
I wish I had done something, I miss her every day. She was such a bouncy girl. She would jump fully off the ground when I'd come home from work.
We planted a Japanese magnolia tree in our front yard and buried most of her ashes with it. I think it's a nice memorial to her.
I made this post because I had no idea that greyhounds have spleen problems, and that at age 7 they can really start to downturn. Our other grey is 11 and knocks on wood she's doing fine. So maybe next time you hit up the vet ask about your dogs spleen if they're getting close to 7.
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A few weeks to a month ago one of my greyhounds died. It was a Sunday morning when we noticed she was being a little weird, but they're always weird so it could've been anything.
A few hours later she could barely stand. We called our cousin who is our vet that sees a lot of greyhounds. He told us to look her over for a tick and give her a tick bath. At this point I had a feeling she wasn't going to make it through the night. I obviously didn't KNOW, but I just had this feeling.
So we went to the store and bought the tick shampoo he recommended and gave her a bath. It was rough. She was using a LOT of effort to barely stand up but the vet told us it could be tick paralysis so that made sense, all the more important to get her the tick bath.
After her bath we dried her off, wrapped her in a blanket and laid her on her favorite spot on the sofa next to me.
When it was time for us to go to bed, I carried her across the house to our bedroom and laid her on her bed next to me. She started crying/screaming. It was horrible. I didn't know if I should take her to an emergency vet, I didn't know if they could do anything to help her, if I'd make it there. Around 9pm I called my vet again and asked "should I take her to an emergency vet?". He could hear her crying on the phone. He said I could but it might not help, I could take her to him tomorrow morning first thing as well and he could see what he could do.
About an hour later she died. It was horrible. Every second of it. I just laid next to her telling her she was a good girl everything was going to be okay and that I loved her and petting her. What else could I do? At that point I pretty much knew she was going to die. I didn't know if I had missed my chance at the emergency vet. Maybe it was my fault she was in so much pain. In case it isn't obvious I still blame myself.
The next morning we took her to our vet. He said he'd see why she died and have her cremated for us.
A week later we go back out to collect her ashes and talk to him. She had an enlarged spleen that had bled out. He said he sees greyhounds that age (she was 7) all the time with spleen problems that lead to their death, but it never happens this quickly. They never go from normal to dead in a matter of 24 hours. He told me there was nothing I could've done, even an emergency vet couldn't have helped when I called him at 9pm.
I wish I had done something, I miss her every day. She was such a bouncy girl. She would jump fully off the ground when I'd come home from work.
We planted a Japanese magnolia tree in our front yard and buried most of her ashes with it. I think it's a nice memorial to her.
I made this post because I had no idea that greyhounds have spleen problems, and that at age 7 they can really start to downturn. Our other grey is 11 and knocks on wood she's doing fine. So maybe next time you hit up the vet ask about your dogs spleen if they're getting close to 7.
2023.03.24 14:20 TheSpartan117piece [XB1] H: Gp V25ffr15fr W: Outfits rares
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2023.03.24 14:20 ImDecentPappi Family visit for the first child in the family
Hi dad's
My little girl was born 14 days ago, and all is good! It's hard, but good!
The last 10 days or so, has just been people running in and out of the house basically... I'm exhausted.... I want them to see my child and all, and they don't expect anything in regards of time or the level of service when visiting, but I'm running out of social battery.
How did you guys handle the first couple of months in terms of family visit? And friend for that matter!
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My little girl was born 14 days ago, and all is good! It's hard, but good!
The last 10 days or so, has just been people running in and out of the house basically... I'm exhausted.... I want them to see my child and all, and they don't expect anything in regards of time or the level of service when visiting, but I'm running out of social battery.
How did you guys handle the first couple of months in terms of family visit? And friend for that matter!
2023.03.24 14:20 tdcoda1 My Mother is TOO Helpful and Gets Upset When I Ask Her to Stop
I love my mom, and for the most part we get along great.
But I'm a 37 year old adult. I own my own home. I have for nearly seven years now.
For some reason, she is obsessed with it. Any time an issue arises, she tries to take over, despite the fact I am fully capable mentally, physically, and financially of solving it myself.
I mention I need an electrician? The next day she's calling me saying she talked to an electrician she knows and MADE ME AN APPOINTMENT. Same thing has happened when talking about needed a plumber, or doing a ton of other things.
It's one thing to say, "Hey I talked to a plumber I know, he said he's free next week. Here's his number."
That kind of help is fine. But don't schedule work for me without consulting me.
And every time I ask her to stop doing this, she acts as if I'm INSULTING her and her feelings are hurt.
Other times she makes purchases for my house without asking.
"Hey I saw some curtains on sale, they would look great for your kitchen so I bought them. I'll come over this weekend and put them up."
NO. Stop. Please. I have curtains in my kitchen. They're fine. "Oh but those are winter curtains, these are summer curtains.
I am sorry but I am a 37 year old, straight, single man. I am not doing "seasonal curtains" and I did not ask you to buy them, and I am busy this weekend.
Now she's upset and mad at me.
I work overnight shifts. I have had to do A LOT of overtime lately. I have been doing 11pm to 11am shifts for the last three weeks straight, with one single day off a couple weekends ago.
Last night was the first time I only had to work 8 hours in that time period, and this is the first weekend I'll have off.
7:30am this morning, just walking through my front door, and my cell phone is ringing.
It's my mom. "Hey I know you mentioned you need some carpentry work done, my neighbor is a great carpenter and he said he'll come by and give you an estimate. We'll be there at 8am tomorrow, I thought me and your father would come down with him and bring breakfast."
Again....NO. For the love of god it's my first time off in like 21 days. I don't want the two of you and a stranger at my house at 8am. Look, I'm not a gross person, but I have to admit with my recent schedule the bathroom is in desperate need of cleaning, the sink is full of dirty dishes, the dust has been piling up.....
I wanted to fucking RELAX today, and spend tomorrow cleaning.
Once again I get the angry guilt trip...."Why do you always do this, I'm just trying to help, do you know how many people would be grateful....."
The worst part is I do end of feeling guilty that I'm annoyed by this. Maybe a lot of other people would love help like this from their mom.
I just get annoyed to hell with it though. She won't admit it, but I feel like this thinks I'm useless and need constant help from her because I'm an unmarried 37 year old man.
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But I'm a 37 year old adult. I own my own home. I have for nearly seven years now.
For some reason, she is obsessed with it. Any time an issue arises, she tries to take over, despite the fact I am fully capable mentally, physically, and financially of solving it myself.
I mention I need an electrician? The next day she's calling me saying she talked to an electrician she knows and MADE ME AN APPOINTMENT. Same thing has happened when talking about needed a plumber, or doing a ton of other things.
It's one thing to say, "Hey I talked to a plumber I know, he said he's free next week. Here's his number."
That kind of help is fine. But don't schedule work for me without consulting me.
And every time I ask her to stop doing this, she acts as if I'm INSULTING her and her feelings are hurt.
Other times she makes purchases for my house without asking.
"Hey I saw some curtains on sale, they would look great for your kitchen so I bought them. I'll come over this weekend and put them up."
NO. Stop. Please. I have curtains in my kitchen. They're fine. "Oh but those are winter curtains, these are summer curtains.
I am sorry but I am a 37 year old, straight, single man. I am not doing "seasonal curtains" and I did not ask you to buy them, and I am busy this weekend.
Now she's upset and mad at me.
I work overnight shifts. I have had to do A LOT of overtime lately. I have been doing 11pm to 11am shifts for the last three weeks straight, with one single day off a couple weekends ago.
Last night was the first time I only had to work 8 hours in that time period, and this is the first weekend I'll have off.
7:30am this morning, just walking through my front door, and my cell phone is ringing.
It's my mom. "Hey I know you mentioned you need some carpentry work done, my neighbor is a great carpenter and he said he'll come by and give you an estimate. We'll be there at 8am tomorrow, I thought me and your father would come down with him and bring breakfast."
Again....NO. For the love of god it's my first time off in like 21 days. I don't want the two of you and a stranger at my house at 8am. Look, I'm not a gross person, but I have to admit with my recent schedule the bathroom is in desperate need of cleaning, the sink is full of dirty dishes, the dust has been piling up.....
I wanted to fucking RELAX today, and spend tomorrow cleaning.
Once again I get the angry guilt trip...."Why do you always do this, I'm just trying to help, do you know how many people would be grateful....."
The worst part is I do end of feeling guilty that I'm annoyed by this. Maybe a lot of other people would love help like this from their mom.
I just get annoyed to hell with it though. She won't admit it, but I feel like this thinks I'm useless and need constant help from her because I'm an unmarried 37 year old man.